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Doughnut
Beginner June 2008

Vile boss update, for anyone who's interested

Doughnut, 12 August, 2009 at 17:27 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 11

I am on the wine already. GAH!

Today someone rang me. I met up with her two months ago to find out the requirements for the new IT system her department need. The boss is meant to OK or refuse these requests, once I've done the scoping and written it up. He didn't. I had a week off (in June!!) so forwarded it to his boss (he was off sick or something I think) to speak to him about as I was going to Glastonbury and didn't want to leave it hanging. She forwarded it to him to allocate a resource to work on the project. Goes without saying he did nothing.

The woman who I originally met rang me that week to ask what was happening as she had to update her dept at their monthly team meeting. I explained it was awaiting a staffing resource.

She rang me again today, as another month has passed and she needs to update her dept on why nothing has happened. I didn't know what to say. I look ***, don't I? I'm not.

I forwarded the email his boss had sent him saying to allocate the resource, explaining what had happened today. She said as he has said he'll deal with it, she will ask him what's happening. I couldn't bear to ask him as he will read the email, come and lean on my desk with both hands and lean right forward and complain that it's held up by something I should have done.

This afternoon we had a team meeting and he nearly made me sick by running his long nails over and over the pull-down projector screen thing in the meeting room. He shouted at everyone for an hour then I ate a biscuit, some chocolate and a cake ?

I am also having some unrelated trouble at work with someone on a personal level which has been stressing me out but I think that is getting sorted too.

On the up side, I applied for a project manager job two bands above what I'm doing now (project support) and have an interview on Monday! It's 35 miles away for another hospital so I'd have to give up my lovely cycle to work but who gives a ***, I might be able to escape! ?

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Latest activity by Ethel, 12 August, 2009 at 23:48
  • Zebra
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    Zebra ·
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    Ugh!

    And wow, good luck!

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  • Pink Han-bag
    Beginner March 2013
    Pink Han-bag ·
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    I don't always reply but I think I've read most of your updates. I honestly don't know how you cope with him.

    Muchos good luck for the interview!

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    Beginner November 2005
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    Wine is good, by the sounds of this guy you need it. Fingers crossed for the new job for you

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    Enjoy the wine Doughnut - needs must sometimes!

    It's never nice to deal with an awkward boss, no matter what industry you work in. Just think on the positive side that you're the better person and you probably have a much more pleasant life out of work than he does.

    I work for someone who blows hot and cold - one minute she wants to be your best friend, the next you'd think she's just trod on you and it really used to upset and stress me out. One day I thought f**k this, it's really not worth it - I work to live, not the other way around and I'm here to pay the bills and have a nice life, not make friends.

    Hope tomorrow is a better day and much much luck for the interview on Monday. Bet you'd laugh all the way home if you get to hand in your notice.

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    I honestly think I would kill this person, I don't have a clue how you put up with him

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    xx

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  • Zo�
    Beginner July 2009
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    I seriously have no idea how he still has a job, god. Good luck for your interview x

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  • Doughnut
    Beginner June 2008
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    Thanks all. Just read the job desc and person spec again and it's MY job! Just need to convince them now...

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    GOOD LUCK

    I always read your updates with some disbelief as to how you manage to put with it so far without commiting murder (or worse)

    There have been a couple of "do you remember where you were when you heard...?" threads recently.

    One was Lois selling the business, the other was Ethel hopefully moving out of the out-laws, and hopefully you getting a new job will be another one soon x

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  • Baby Buns
    Beginner September 2007
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    Good luck with the interview and everything crossed they can see it's your job!

    What an arse your current boss is - and his boss as she never seems to do anything about his crapness does she.

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  • Ethel
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    KJB, just wanted to say that it means a lot to know people are rooting for me!

    Will post a seperate update thread, to let y'all know how it's going.

    D..your boss is a nutter!

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