Hi fellow hitchers!
I'm looking for advice from you all over whether it is wrong to want to change the guestlist after i've sent my save the dates out? Don't get me wrong a heck of a lot of thought went in to the guestlist and ultimately people who i really to and fro'd with about inviting ended up with a save the date to try and do the 'right thing' by inviting them. One of the people who i am having regrets about sending the save the date to is my older half brother. I really didn't want to invite him as horrible as it sounds because we aren't close. I haven't seen him in about 3 years and we never talk but if we do it's an argument because of various things. There are many other things about him that i personally don't care for either but i would bore everyone writing it. I also felt like the save the date had to be for his partner and her child which i've never met but i'd really wanted a personal wedding with only the people who mean the most to us attending. Would it be wrong to not send invites to all those who i have doubts about and instead just send them an evening reception invite which is what i'd intended to do until people told me 'it's not right to not invite them to the wedding'.
many thanks ?