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Beginner November 2013

wearing your engagement ring during your ceremony

cath4512, 5 November, 2013 at 13:37 Posted on Planning 0 16

Someone asked me which finger I was moving my engagement ring to when I get married. I was just going to leave it on as I have a ring on my right hand (engagement finger) which I am wearing during my ceremony.

Is anyone else leaving their engagement ring on?

16 replies

Latest activity by *Pugsley*, 6 November, 2013 at 20:21
  • BarcaGirl25
    Beginner April 2014
    BarcaGirl25 ·
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    I'm leaving it on my ring finger of my left hand. I will then swap it over so my wedding ring is "behind" it (so to speak) when we leave the church.

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  • Feb2014Bride
    Beginner February 2014
    Feb2014Bride ·
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    Im going to swap it to the other hand, just so my finger is "free" for the wedding ring.

    We have asked for a close up picture of us exchanging rings so dont want my ER overshadowing my WR. Plus when that ring goes on thats it, it will not be coming off again ha.

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  • C
    Beginner November 2013
    cath4512 ·
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    I have also read its traditional to have the wedding ring first ( closest to the heart ) then engagement. I actually think mine looks better the other way so will be doing it all wrong I suppose lol.

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  • Helenia
    Beginner September 2011
    Helenia ·
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    Some places will insist that you remove any rings from your wedding ring finger - it's an old tradition to "prove" you're not already married.

    I only wore my engagement ring intermittently anyway (I work in hospital so it's not allowed there) so it was no big deal for me to take it off - I wore it on my right hand.

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  • tayto
    Beginner May 2013
    tayto ·
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    This is what I did - I wore it on the left hand until about 5 mins before the ring exchange and then swapped it. When signing the register, i had them both back on the left hand.

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  • W
    Beginner February 2014
    Wifeytobe88 ·
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    I think I will swop my ER to my right hand before the ceremony too!

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  • Maldives2013
    Beginner December 2013
    Maldives2013 ·
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    I'm just going to move mine to my right hand for the ceremony, i think most people i know have doen that.

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  • N
    Beginner May 2015
    NettieP83 ·
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    Me too! x

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  • Jaysmonkey
    Beginner August 2014
    Jaysmonkey ·
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    I'm not moving my engagement ring, my wedding ring will be placed beside it on the day. I'm not being very traditional but I've had to have a bespoke WR made to fit my ER and this way sits the best and looks the best. ?

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  • Rosco298
    Beginner February 2014
    Rosco298 ·
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    Me too. I already wear a rin gon my right hand but I'll just wear two on that finger for the ceremony then once my wedding ring is on I'll move my enagement one back to the correct hand.

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  • M
    Beginner May 2014
    Muppet ·
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    I hadn't thought about it yet, but I suppose I will wear it on another hand or maybe on a necklace as it could always be my something blue (the stone is going to be a topaz)

    As we'll be in a hotel, I just don't want to risk leaving it anywhere even in a safe, so will keep it on me!

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  • M
    Beginner January 2015
    murphy88 ·
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    I also don't want it on my left finger, I#ll either put on my right hand or give to my mum to look after until after the ceromony.

    I am then having my wedding ring on first and then engagement ring - i have to take my ER off everyday for work so makes sense my WR is on first

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  • SarahW73
    Beginner September 2013
    SarahW73 ·
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    I wore mine on my right hand for the ceremony then put it on with my wedding ring afterwards.

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  • C
    Beginner November 2013
    cath4512 ·
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    I am definately leaving my engagement ring on my left hand. The ring I wear on my right is the one I gave my daughter for her 21st & she died 6 months later & I have worn her ring ever since.

    Im not one for tradition anyway Smiley smile

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  • L
    Beginner December 2012
    LEN11212 ·
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    I was told by the registrar to make sure I wasn't wearing a ring no my wedding finger, not sure if it's a specific rule as such, but she certainly made it sound like it was.

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  • Alreadymarried
    Alreadymarried ·
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    I wore it on my right hand then swapped it into my left hand after the ceremony.

    I have to take my engagement ring off for work anyway, my wedding ring never comes off.

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  • *Pugsley*
    Beginner March 2014
    *Pugsley* ·
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    I'll put mine on my right hand. It's a teenie bit tighter but it does fit on there luckily.

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