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Wedding favours???

donna_law, 8 March, 2010 at 19:22 Posted on Planning 0 14

Getting married next year on a budget, but the big question at the moment is do we do wedding favours or not??? me and OH can not make our minds up. Quite like the idea of giving something back but is it worth the cost?

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Latest activity by surfgirl, 9 March, 2010 at 15:24
  • Keltickurse
    Beginner March 2011
    Keltickurse ·
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    I suppose it depends on how many people you will have at your wedding (i.e. how much cost)

    depending on what you decide to do they can be as cheap (or expensive) as you like!

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  • cola
    Beginner September 2010
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    If you are on a tight buget i think favours are one thing that can easily be left out.

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  • S
    Beginner October 2011
    superlauren321 ·
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    My brother in law isnt having favours...i agree with cola they arent a necessity

    x

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  • emsa1
    Beginner May 2011
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    I agree with cola....people dont expect them and of course you have to factor in the cost of the actual pressie, then the box/wrapping/ribbon etc that goes with it as well

    if you wanted something on the tables in place of a favour you could do a little handwritten note for everyone with a little personalised message (if you have the time and energy!!!) that would be free and guests would love it!

    i have also seen in place of favours a wine glass trinket on everyone's glass (you can get these cheaply on ebay), feathers attached to a napkin with a ribbon, or a couple of loose sweets or chocolates on everyone's plate xx

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  • GeordieBarbie
    Beginner May 2010
    GeordieBarbie ·
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    We're not having favours - I think they're a silly American tradition and a waste of money.

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    MsCheerful ·
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    I would say that its something that you can leave out if you are watching your costs. Better that than having somethig really cheap that ends up being left on the table x

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  • debmci
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    We considered not having them, but it was my OH that said that he thinks its nice to get some wee thing and would be a tad disappointed if there was nothing! you can get wee favour bags on ebay and other places online for not a lot and, you can buy sweets in any of the supermarkets of their "value" range! cou could have change from £20!

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  • Steelgoddess
    Beginner June 2010
    Steelgoddess ·
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    You don't HAVE to have them but they are a nice touch to thank guests for coming. But doubt anyone would miss them and cull you because of it Smiley smile

    xx

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  • Mitzi50
    Beginner June 2010
    Mitzi50 ·
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    Im with GB on this one, i think they are a waste of money. They arent an english tradition, as far as im aware. And as for giving something back to the guests for coming to the wedding, we are givng them a 3 course meal and some booze! My friend did favours and they were all left behind.

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  • lady_esmerelda
    Beginner November 2008
    lady_esmerelda ·
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    We got married last november (08, i mean), and we did favours just for the women, we gave them brest cancer pins, which cost like £1 each. depends how many people you're having I guess.

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  • Jumbly Girl
    Beginner May 2010
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    I've seen this too - it must be so frustrating for the bride/groom but people just don't really tend to realise what they are....

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    Beginner September 2010
    JackieS ·
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    Personally I don't see the point. As the others have said I've been to a few weddings where they just get left behind which is just a waste. I figure you're saying thank you for coming by providing food, music and drinks so thats thank you enough!

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    Beginner July 2010
    brideseekingblush ·
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    Yup - we're not doing them. It does just seem a waste of money to me, and OH really wasn't keen.

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    Beginner May 2010
    surfgirl ·
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    We will be having favours, i think it's quite a nice touch. We bought theses little boxes off ebay 100 for £18 and i'm going to fill them with some kind of chocolates( maybe 2 or 3 fererro rocher or something?)

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