Hi everyone hope some of you can help us . Our parents are forcing us (or making us feel guilty) to invite the brides aunt and my mum is forcing us to invite her parents who I don't like anymore because of the way they have treated her in the past year (long story) . we don't want to elope because we want close family and friends to witness us getting hitched . It isn't as easy as just inviting close family because brides work mate is taking photos and will have to invite his wife and other work mates (who we are closer to than photographer ) . Also the bride would love to invite her granny because they are close but (same old story why is brides granny there if grooms isn't invited) none of grooms grandparents would be invited because of past problems .
Any ideas would be much appreciated we both are at a loss and don't know where to go from here .
thanks
