Wedding has been cancelled ;-(

Kentish, Im so sorry to hear this, although from what you said, it sounds like it was the right decision for you both and I sincerely hope that taking the pressure off will help you get back to how things were xx

Oh goodness! Kentish, sorry to hear but I think you have made one very big decision and a sensible one at that! I wish you and your OH all the best in your relationship and may you enjoy falling in love all over again ))))

take it easy and stop by from time to time )) huggss xxx

Am so sorry to read this ? but am glad that you are focusing on your relationship as a result.

I know exactly what you are going through and it is horrendous but the positive that you have is that you still have eachother and you can work on this together with out distraction.

If you ever want to talk, please feel free to drop me a line.

Sarah xx

I am so sorry to hear that but as the others said it sounds like you are doing the right thing by concentrating on your r/ship without the stress and worry of a wedding too. Hope it all works out for you xxx

Blimey! That's a shocker.

I hope that you can sort it all out, but it sounds like you both made a wise decision.

Crikey im sorry to hear that! but if it helps to sort out your relationship and makes you both happier in the long run then it sounds like it was the right decision! hope you're ok xxx

Sorry to hear your news Kentish... Hope things work out for u & your OH... & as TeeHee says hope u enjoy falling in love all over again!

Nxx

Sorry to hear this Kentish, hope you and your OH manage to get your relationship back on track ?

Awww so sorry to hear this, but it sounds like everyone else says its for the best. If things are a little difficult now, they would have been worse if married, take some time out and re-ignite and re-coup xx

WEES

Takes a lot of courage to make a decision like that. May you be happier + your love be stronger.

Don't be a stranger xx

Kentish, I'm very sorry to hear this. It sounds like a brave and wise move to cancel or postpone.

I hope you rediscover what made you both want to get married in the first place, and have fun along the way.

If it's not too hard, do pop back from time to time to let us know how you are getting on.

I'm really sorry to hear this! But, like others have said, sounds like you've made a sensible decision in order to get your relationship back on track. I hope you and your OH can work things out ?

Sorry to read this. I think it's fantastic that you know your relationship is worth more and want to work at that. ?

Kentish, I am so sorry but at least you still have each other ?...you both know that marriage is still on the cards and when you are both ready and finances are in control you can concentrate on the wedding that you both want ?

I hope you still feel welcome here ?

God KB, I'm so sorry that it's come to this. You've both been very brave and wise in taking such a scary decision.

Please, please, don't disappear. I'll miss you and will quite likely stalk you or summat if you do!

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Sorry really that you've had to cancel but it takes a stronger couple to cancel at times than going ahead without it being 100% right so you have been very brave. I hope your relationship gets back on track now and you can have the wedding you both want in time to come or possibly not have the wedding but have a perfect relationship as I believe there doesn't need to be a marriage to live happily ever after.

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Really sorry to hear you've cancelled the wedding. It sounds like you've both made the right decision though. I hope you can both still make your relationship work and eventually have your wedding, although I know there's a lot of couples who find that they are better as a couple not being married.

I hope it all works out x

Hi Kentish,

(((((HUG))))))) You seem like a v v v sensible laydee, you have put your relationship first and put the wedding on a back burner, I think you are both very brave and that you have done the right thing, H and I went through a rough patch a few months ago and we talked about cancelling ?, I was too selfish to even contemplate it at the time , luckily we made it through the dark bit and are v happy now, I hope the same is true for you guys. ❤️

Please please take Sarah up on her offer, you are both going through similar things, you could bounce off each other and be a beacon of support. Also - jus cos our not a "bride" doesnt mean we dont need your resourcefulness or ideas, so you see.... you have to stick around on hitched cose we need you!!

SC

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What a brave and sensible decision for you both to make. I guess when you know, you know.

Hope everything works out in time.

So sorry to hear this. Right decision though - hope it works out for you both.

xxx

So sorry to hear this Kentishbride. Really happy that you still have each other though and that you can work on things and move forward, also that you've not lost a huge amount of cash from this.

All the best to you and your OH, I am sure you will get through this and it will make you stronger than ever ?

What a very brave lady you are, but if this saves your relationship then it is worth it. Take each day as it comes work at it and we will see you back here soon. But till then don't be a stranger!

Big Hug xxx

I am so sorry to hear this ?

like everyone else said, i think you have made the right decision and you are very brave. Take care and be kind to yourself, hope that everything works out xxxxx

Wow hats off to you for making a huge decision. deffiantly sounds like the right one. I wish you all the best x

That must have been a very difficult but very brave decision to make. I think it's wonderful that you've recognised what is going wrong in your relationship and trying to sort it out, rather than just continuing.

I really hope things will work out for you both - and don't be a stranger.

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Thanks for the support - to be honest all i have done since the cancellation is wonder whether i have done the right thing - but i know we would never have lasted if things didn't change x

Speaking as someone who let it get too far down the line, you have done the most sensible thing. You are still at a point where you want to work for your relationship. I sadly went passed that point.

Thinking of you xxx

Kb - weddings can be rescheduled, the repairation of a relationship can't. If something is causing severe problems, remove it from the equation so you can see clearly if there is a deeper underlying cause. You have absolutely done the right thing.

? So glad you didn't disappear.

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WEES - So sorry to hear this. I hope that you and your OH get your relationship back on track. ?

You're doing the right thing.....? As said before, you've not ruled out Marriage completely, its just not right at the moment Xx

I was in your situation 2 years ago and we pulled through. I wish you all the best, whatever happens x