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donnyette
Beginner December 2016

WEDDING IS OFF!!!

donnyette, 24 July, 2014 at 18:54 Posted on Planning 0 112

Sorry to tell you ladies that our wedding has been called off. I have made the discovery today that my OH has been living and in a relationship with his kids mom for the past 3 years!!! Pretty much living a double life. Devestated is a very big understatement right now!

Thanks for all advice given to help with a wedding that will now never happen. Sort of now makes sense why we have had so much palava with wedding planning!

PP just wanted to rant to skmeone who isnt family x

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Latest activity by pammy67, 26 July, 2014 at 13:52
  • daffodilly
    Beginner August 2015
    daffodilly ·
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    Aluvbug....i really don't know what to say/type but sending you huge hugs.

    I know it's probably not what you want to hear right know but it's probably better finding out before rather than after the wedding .

    So sorry.

    More hugs

    Xxx

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  • H
    Beginner July 2016
    HeavyMetalMaiden ·
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    What the hell?!?!

    I am so so so so sorry aluvbug, you do not deserve that AT ALL. I am incredibly angry on your behalf...

    I really don't know what else to say other than that we are still here for you regardless, and I send you millions of virtual hugs xxxxxxx

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  • MrsBoo
    Beginner November 2014
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    Really sorry to hear this!!

    hugs!

    xxxx

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  • Chucklevision
    Beginner July 2015
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    Uh oh how horrible! Can't imagine how you must feel. Thinking of you.

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  • *MM3*
    Beginner June 2014
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    Oh my god, i'm so sorry to hear this Smiley sad

    We're all here for you if you need or want our support x

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  • C
    Beginner January 2001
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    So sorry you are going through this, you are worth so much more than to be treated like that

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  • *Mini*
    Beginner January 2012
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    I'm so sorry to hear this.

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  • I-go-by-many-names
    Super April 2015
    I-go-by-many-names ·
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    Absolutely shocking, I hope that you can get over this x

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  • charliejack
    Beginner October 2014
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    So very very sorry to hear this.

    big hugs xxxx

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  • MadamRed
    Beginner April 2017
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    *hugs* ☹️ Oh sweetie I am so sorry to hear this. I hope you've kicked him out and thrown all his stuff onto the street! At least you found out now and not after the wedding.

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  • LittleSnowflake
    Beginner January 2016
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    This ^^^^^^

    I too am seriously shocked at his behaviour!!

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  • lc93
    Beginner September 2016
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    I have nothing to add but didn't want to read and run. SO so sorry to hear your news, I can't even begin to imagine how you must be feeling but ditto the poster who said it's probably best to find out now than after the wedding.

    If there's anything we can do to help, you've got an army of supporters behind you xxx

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  • Ohwhatatuesday
    Beginner May 2014
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    So sorry aluv bug that's awful. Feel free to join us on ot if you want somewhere to talk but don't want to be around wp. Hope you've got lots of friends and family around you. X

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    Beginner August 2014
    H3LEN ·
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    OMFG, I'm really sorry aluvbug what a tw*t.

    Like others have said it's better to find out now. Know that's of no help.

    Please don't come off the hitched were all here if you want to vent.

    Sending hugging of hugs.

    xxx

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  • SallyLou
    Beginner August 2014
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    Oh my gosh - that's awful. So sorry you're going through this. We're here if you need to talk. x

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  • pink & glitz
    Beginner August 2014
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    Sorry your going through this, you deserve so much better, sending you a hug xx

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  • MrsHertfordshire
    Beginner September 2014
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    Oh my god aluvbug I am so sorry you are going through this!!

    Thoughts are with you xx

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  • terri_cramp
    Beginner May 2015
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    I'm so sorry... What an absolute arse! X

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  • AuntieBJ
    Beginner September 2014
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    So very sorry to hear this xxx

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    Beginner August 2014
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    After the horrible hand you have been delt, from the bottom of my heart I hope the future brings you a man who can be true to you. All the best for now, can't picture how you feel x

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    Beginner October 2015
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    I'm so so sorry to hear this. xx

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  • xoxoxo2017
    Beginner May 2017
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    Very sorry to read this..... not that there is ANY light on this situation but best to learn this now rather than after the wedding and expense. *hugs*

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  • Mrs.K2b
    Beginner August 2015
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    I am so sorry to hear this, hoping you've got friends and family close by to get you through this, sending virtual hugs x

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  • BAMS
    Beginner November 2014
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    As everyone else has said I am so sorry that you are going through this.

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  • MrsCWB
    Beginner October 2014
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    So sorry to hear this my lovely. Keep strong and remember we're all here for you.

    x

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    Beginner September 2014
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    I can't add anything really just that I'm so so sorry this has happened x. Sending you hugs xx

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    Beginner November 2014
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    So so sorry to hears this. Like the others have said at least you've found out now rather than after the wedding. Stay strong and just remember that you deserve better and everything happens for a reason! X

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  • MrsToffee
    Expert April 2015
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    So sorry to hear this aluvbug; hope you find someone who's actually worth it.

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  • MrsKHbutterfly
    Rockstar September 2014
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    I know no words from me will help, but I couldn't read and run!! Just stay strong!! Big (((((((HUGS))))))))) xxxx

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  • cymruangel
    Beginner December 2014
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    I'm so so sorry to hear this aluvbug - bug weirdy internet hugs to you and if we can help at all let us know.

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  • EdenNI
    Beginner December 2014
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    God what a terrible shock. You must be completely devastated! So sorry for you. Take care of yourself xx

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  • alyj66
    VIP August 2014
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    What a horrible situation, I'm so sorry for you. Look after yourself xx

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