Hey
Basically my OH half has offered to pay for his parents accommodation which is quite a lot now I don't know whether we should of not I feel if we pay for his we should pay for my parents which I don't think we could afford the problem I have is my OH and his parents are quite bad with money my parents on the other hand aren't. my OH seems to think cause my parents are 'well off' as he put it they should pay for the,selves which my parents don't mind however I feel that just because his parents can't afford it then we shouldn't have to pay for them I don't see how my OH can expect my parents to pay and not his he says its cause his parents can't afford it but at the end of the day my parents have worked and saved all their lives they didn't get everything handed an a plate plus my parents are contributing towards the wedding his aren't.
I know he really wants his mum to stay and I genuinely think she will only stay if we pay we've asked her if she wanted to stay and she said no we even found a cheaper alternative she said no but as soon as he said we would pay she said yes plus to top it off my parents are offering to pay for my sisters to stay but now my OH brother is expecting us to pay for him as we're paying for his parents.
sorry for the rant just really stressed cause I have my mother who doesn't mind paying for anything but says she least thinks my MIL should contribute to something but then when I mention this to my OH he just starts arguing with me
