My beloved grandmother died just under two years ago, and sadly will not be able to see me marry. She was 89 and had been with my grandfather (now 92) since they were 16. We were very very close, and I miss her everyday.
Her wedding ring was 18ct yellow gold, and mum suggested I use it as a wedding ring. However, my engagement ring is 18ct white gold, and we would like to have white gold wedding rings each. I also understand you shouldn't have two different types of gold next to each other, as they rub.
A jeweller friend said that he could cover the yellow gold ring to make a white gold ring out of it, but that often the covering does not last if the ring is worn constantly (ie, during washing up etc). I also, am not sure whether I'd want to change her wedding ring - it would seem odd altering it. However, I would love to wear her ring every day, it would be very special for me to be able to do this.
Does anyone have experience of altering a family piece in such a manner, or alternative ideas?