Weekly good/bad thread.

Sorry work is rubbish! Hope you have a nice weekend

Good: My dad is coming round for tea tonight and I can’t wait for beef stew and tiger bread. Yummmm.

Good: H’s last weekend where he has to work.

Good: His cousins have both made it through the op and so far recovering well.

Good: I feel a bit better about work as I actually have some stuff to do at home now.

Bad: I’m upset for my friend. She’s really going through it at the moment and it’s just so unfair

Love and vibes to all who need them x

BT refs

Bad - My sister in law is in hospital with another suspected ectopic, she had one a few months ago had to have one of her tubes removed. Like me, she was about to start IVF but fell naturally, had a massive bleed on Monday and this is the latest, so sad for her.

Bad - it's knocked the wind out of my sails and I just feel terrified that it's going to happen to us.

Bad - everything seems to be BT lately and it;s driving me insane to be honest, it's my problem I have to deal with it but I'm struggling a bit.

Anyway enough of the bads

Good - I have a weekend doing bugger all except chiling with my hubby and dog eating comfort food and chocolate and watching movies!

Sorry Claire ? vibes to your SIL. I have everything crossed that you have a smooth uneventful journey xx

In spite of what I said in my post, this made me smile ?

OB I wrote the above before seeing your post and thank you x

Thanks lovely x

Claire massive hugs for you and your sister. I know what you mean about everything being BT, it just seems to surround me when it's the last thing I need sometimes.

Good- I have lost a couple of pounds in the last couple of weeks- I still need to lose half a stone but I'm getting there slowly.

Good/Bad- I am eating out tonight and tomorrow night- this will not help my diet but I will be eating some yummy food.

Good Good Good Good - We got good news at the hospital yesterday, well as good as it can get from a very sad situation.

BT REF-

Good- We've been told we can start ttc again.

Amazing Mrs I, I don't need to tell you how much I am rooting for you! x

Good: It is nearly the weekend!

Good: Staying at the house tonight for the 1st time

Good: My new job is definitely starting on the 14th of October after lots of references stress. I have received my induction and training timetable.

Good: A couple l know got married yesterday! They have been together 40 years, a few months back he had massive stroke and was very unwell. He is much better now and they had a lovely wedding day.

Bad / good: I got a serbaceous cyst removed from my head and it is killing me. My head is so sore and l have a bald patch! At least it is gone and it will have nearly healed by the time my new job starts

Bad: I have spent so much money on boring stuff this week -NMC registration, graduation tickets etc. Money is tight!

Oh Claire...I know what you mean. So sorry to hear how difficult it is for you and hope your SIL gets better very soon.

Thank you AC it means alot I hate being all woe is me, but I can't help it at the moment.

Happy Friday every one!

Vibers to the Otters and family members that need them, Errin- I hope your hair grows back quickly!

Bad- 6 day working week instead of my usual 3 :-( including working late tonight and 8-4:30 tomorrow

Good: have next week off to make up for it! yay!

Good: Friends 30th birthday party tomorrow night

Bad: will probably be knackered during it!

Good: friends are visiting to go to above mentioned birthday pary and they got engaged last week so i can't wait to celebrate with them!

Have a happy weekend everyone!

Good - Our clients today could not be easier and are out all afternoon so an early finish may be on the cards

Good - Catching up with my best girl friends tonight. All 3 of them have kids so it is rare that we can all get together.

Bad - due to all 3 of them having kids and me not, it is likely that the children (and childbirth) may be the main topic of converstion.

Bad - I have a stinking cold, fingers crossed for that early finish.

Good - it is no longer raining here so i may get home dry!

Bad - There is a Grand Prix this weekend. I will not see OH for HOURS! zmmmmmm zmmmmmm zmmmmmmmmmmm

Huge vibes to those who need them - Claire - sending hugs to you and your SiL, Mrs Imp, that's great news about TTC and OB I'm glad work is getting better.

Erin - staying in the new house must be very exciting!

Everything has been pretty quiet for me this week which has been quite nice

Good - I had a lovely trip to see my dad this week

Good - I'm going segway-ing tomorrow and I'm quite excited!

Bad - Mr DCM is still working crazy hours so I don't see him very much

Good - he's around all weekend which is very good!

So sorry for your SIL Claire. Hugs and vibes to everyone else who needs them.

Bad - just about to fly back to the UK

Good - very excited to see my Misha cat, it's been over 3 weeks

Bad - NOT looking forward to going back to work next week

Good - Have been back in touch with one of my old best friends and things are great between us, hadn't seen her in 2 years and lost touch but it's like we were never apart again

Bad - Another friend has split up with her partner and they were planning their wedding around the same time as me so feel very guilty mentioning anything now

Good - Taking my dear Mum to see Rod Stewart tomorrow as a little treat, will take her for a few drinks and a meal then go to the concert, little mother & daughter time we could do with I think

Bad - My boy had another day off nursery with a bad asthma attack again, so horrible seeing him in such a state and hate not being able to help in any other way than giving him his inhaler

Good - It's Friday!!

Have a great weekend otters and thinking of everyone with horrible situations at the moment! Sending big hugs and vibes to you all!

Good: I am 12 weeks today

Bad: I'm currently sat in bed at work doing a sleep in which you never get any sleep

Good: I sent out my save the date even if they are 3 months late

Bad: I need to start my Christmas shopping and finish it by 17th November

Good: I have my 12 week scan on Tuesday a we will finally find out if it's just one bean or if it is two as twins run in both sides of mine and H2Bs families

Bad: OH's Grandad passed away on Sunday. Still hasn't sunk in. Funeral is on Thursday.

I really don't have anything good to say about the week we have had.

Big hugs Hoddy, thinking of you all ?

Thank you. I hate feeling sorry for myself but he had such a huge impact on OH and I and we just wouldn't be who we are now without him. And as I didn't have a dad growing up and don't know my grandparents the fact he welcomed me and loved me as he did meant so much and now he isn't here, we just didn't have long enough with him

It's not feeling sorry for yourself at all you're bound to feel like that. He sounds like a lovely man, i'm sure he'll have a brilliant send off on Thursday and at least the time you did have with him it was loving & happy times. Sure he'll always be with you all in your hearts! Very sorry for your loss & you know the otters are always here if you need to talk or have a cry to x

Thank you Matthewsmummy The family is being so strong and just sticking together, I have to be strong with them.

Vibes and hugs to everyone else who needs them x

Lots and lots of hugs and vibes to those that need them x

Good - we've finally completed the transfer of equity and mortgage renewal.

Good - I had my nails done yesterday. I look forward to my 3-weekly catch up with the spa girls!

Good - the sun is shining and I'm having a lie in.

Bad - this tablet is being annoying and this is taking more effort than necessary to type.

Good - I've cleared one of the spare bedrooms and it's ready to decorate. G

Good - I've booked some time off in January.

All good, especially that!!!

Bad - I have had a seriously horrendous few weeks of work that have left me drained, mentally & physically but..

Good - touch wood, things are improving.

Good - less than 2 weeks now till we move house, I feel excited and nervous about it!

Hugs to all those who need them xx

Bad - work has been absolutely crazy recently, we constantly seem to be chasing our collective tail. Extremely frustrating. Like flowersinherhair, I love my job but the work at the moment is really stressful at the moment.

Good - I feel the fittest and healthiest I have ever been. I feel great ?

Good - six monthiversary today. Didn't think it would seem like a fairly big thing to me (it's not like it's a year) but it does feel nice ?

Bad - the work week ahead is chock full of meetings. My manager is very meeting happy, even if we achieve nothing from them, but it means that I am always in a meeting talking about work that I should be completing at my desk whilst I'm in the damn meeting.

hugs and positive vibes to those who need them. X