Hi guys. Me & h2b have had a big bust up, I've taken a bag of my things & I won't be going back tonight. Here's the jist of what happened.
my mum was diagnosed with renal failure in November. Was very unwell, in intensive care for weeks. We very nearly lost her, she's been home just over a month now.
Anyway yesterday she had a seizure and was admitted into hospital, intensive care unit. She's awake, stable. But very confused, disorientated, slurred speak, talking rubbish etc. We don't know yet if this is due to some permanent damage to the brain. Anyway so h2b went to work yesterday morning as he usually does, he hates hospitals so told me to keep him updated. After work he went to the pub to watch the football as he had originally planned.
I text him during the match to say 'can you come home after the football. I need you'. I was so emotional, worried etc about my mum. I just needed him at home with me.
To that I got a reply 'I've had too much to drink. I will call you after the football'. No how's your mum, what's happening or anything!
I was so annoyed left him to it. He strolls in at 4 am this morning!!!
I'm just so upset. what a selfish man! HE knew what was going on, knew I needed him To be there for me. But instead stayed out drinking after the football. Not even contacting me to see if i wss okay! I'm just flabagasted! I can't believe he's behaved like this. How can I marry someone who isn't there for me in times of need!! The guy I fell in love with would have done anything for me, dropped anything at the drop of a hat if I needed him. This is the first time something like this has happened but I just don't know if I can forgive him for it! We haven't spoken today, I woke up packed a bag and left & have not heard from him. I should be his priority in life, don't you agree!?
Do you think I'm over reacting?