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Beginner April 2011

What are you most nervous/most excited about?!

arnold2b, 8 February, 2011 at 09:59 Posted on Planning 0 23

I am sooo excited at the moment as its about 9 weeks away (I can't get a ticker to work) and all the details are coming together, there is not much left to do really! But at the same time i have these nervous butteflies in my stomach. So I thought I would see how you are all feeling about the big day!

I am most nervous about: entering the ceremony room! And hoping that all our guests have a brilliant day so I can relax (I get stressed and anxious easily!)

I am most excited about: My OH seeing me in my dress and our first kiss once we have been pronounced husband and wife!

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Latest activity by arnold2b, 9 February, 2011 at 19:33
  • J
    Beginner October 2011
    jade12345 ·
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    I am dreading(but in a good way lol) standing at the church doors waiting & also walking down the aisle. i'm excited about everything really and wish it would hurry up to october x

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  • Panjita
    Beginner May 2011
    Panjita ·
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    I am terrified about all eyes being on me!!! It scares the hell out of me. I'm also worried I will cry as I walk down the aisle. I am such a worrier though, I worry I will get the giggles or not be able to speak when it's time to say vows etc. I could go into a proper panic about it all!!! lol.

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  • xsammix
    Beginner February 2011
    xsammix ·
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    I'm terrified of walking down the aisle, knowing me I'll probably fall on my face ?

    Excited about wearing my dress and seeing my OH all suited and booted! x

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  • MrsBarnett2b
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    MrsBarnett2b ·
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    Sounds like everybody scared about the same thing! The part im most looking forward to will be oh seeing me in my dress, and the bit im most nervous about is the same thing, walking down the aisle! God im dreading it already, when i get nervous i start gigling and in terrified of doing this down the aisle with everybody watching me.

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  • PompeyEm
    Beginner September 2011
    PompeyEm ·
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    I've resigned myself to the idea that I will fall flat on my face at some point in the day so I'm not really worried about that.

    What I'm worried about is seeing a load of relatives who I haven't seen in years (and my OH's relatives that I've not met) going "oh love the dress, but my god she's got fat"

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  • Allgold78
    Beginner October 2011
    Allgold78 ·
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    Ooh good thread! Ok, I'm most excited about standing there getting married to my h2b. I know it sounds corny but we've been together 10 years and I've wanted to marry him for 8 of those!!! Most dreading h2b seeing the dress. I absolutely love it but he's made comments about similar on tv and so I'm really not sure whether he'll like it or not.

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  • Little Madam
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    Little Madam ·
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    I'm most excited about seeing H2b in his uniform and having him see me in my dress.

    I'm nervous about the preparations - getting everything perfect.

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  • Flowmojo
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    Flowmojo ·
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    Im nervous about the tables not being set up for the wedding breakfast as i want/imagine them too!! i wont get the chance to do it myself!!!!

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  • S
    Beginner October 2011
    SuperSpud ·
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    I'm excited about seeing my OH waiting for me.

    I'm dreading everyone elses eyes on me - I hate being the centre of attention, quite shy and don't cope well with social situations. I don't suppose the guests could turn the other way and talk amoungst themselves until I'm safety down the isle and stood next to OH? Maybe they'll get distracted by the beautiful Wensleydale countryside...(some hope)

    I know all the day guests (family and close friends) but it still freaks me out.

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  • freb2reh
    Beginner July 2011
    freb2reh ·
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    Probably most nervoues about sayirng my vows! Not because I don't want to, simply I am rather shy and just dreading all the focus being on us if that makes sense. Most looking forward too - OH seeing me and hopefully thinking "wow"!

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  • Browny
    Beginner June 2011
    Browny ·
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    I'm nervous about not being able to get through my vows for crying like a baby ?

    I'm most excited about seeing his face when he sees me walking down the isle...although that will probably set me off crying...

    That and having all our family and friends in one place - its such a unique thing and probably wont happen again for a long time (i.e. anniversary party!). I cant wait!

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  • Kat44
    Beginner August 2011
    Kat44 ·
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    I'm most excited about seeing my OH waiting for me but also seeing everyone dressed up and seeing everything come together and how it all looks for real, instead of in my head!

    I'm most nervous about whether I can keep a lid on my emotions because once I start crying, I find it hard to stop and so far I've got emotional when I saw OH try his suit on, when we heard the pianist play my entrance song, when I tried my dress on etc etc!! And I even cried more than my mum at my brothers wedding!! So worried i will be a pathetic sobbing wreck on the day! ?

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  • L
    Beginner June 2011
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    I am excited about the whole thing and I can't wait for the day to be here!

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  • jojo2
    Beginner June 2012
    jojo2 ·
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    I am nervous about loads walking down the aisle, and making all sure all the decor is perfect, band not turning up I could go on..

    I am excited about seeing OH and being pronounced husband and wife eek!

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  • WhiteRose84
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    WhiteRose84 ·
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    Oooh, good thread!!

    Most nervous about taking everything to Lake Garda with us - esp the transportation of my dress!

    Most excited about seeing H2B's face and giving him a first kiss as his wife! xx

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  • Emj85
    Beginner June 2012
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    The thing im most dreading is walking down the isle and the first dance (all the bits where all eyes are on us) and the thing I'm looking forward to most is H2B's face when he sees me and seeing him x

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  • M
    Beginner May 2012
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    I am, like most of you, nervous about walking down the isle. I was watching a friends (who recently got married) wedding video with her on friday and it showed her waiting to walk down the isle and my heart went all fluttery. I can just imagine me passing out!

    I am most excited about lots of things: Saying my vows, our first kiss as a married couple, the speeches, our first dance, having all of our family and friends with us to celebrate and the reception party!

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  • FutureMrsRon
    Beginner February 2012
    FutureMrsRon ·
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    Oooh I like reading this one ?

    I'm not really nervous about any of it, I can't wait!!! Although I've now had 3 dreams where he didn't like my dress.......in the dream it wasn't my actual dress but I told him yesterday that if he doesn't like it, just pretend and don't tell me til afterwards, he actually looked genuinely upset that I think he'd not like it. He said that even if he wouldn't normally like the dress on anyone else, he'll love it when I'm in it, how sweet lol

    I'm just really excited about everything, can't wait to get in the helicopter, can't wait for our entire holiday, can't wait for our sham wedding day over here, can't wait to see the look on MIL2B's face when she sees how I've decorated the venue (she's not convinced it's right for a wedding at all, to be fair, it's a hideous room but a few rolls of organza draped on the walls will work wonders lol)

    I'm bored of waiting for it, I just can't wait for it to hurr up and get here!!!

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  • stripeyrache
    Super February 2011
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    Definitely nervous about the whole aisle thing. I think its the pressure of it being like a grand entrance, all eyes on you, and there's so much expectation for you to look more amazing than you have ever looked before! What if everyone thinks I look fat? What if they think my dress is ugly? Etc etc etc. I know OH won't think that, but I get the feeling it's going to feel like a loooooong walk up to him! Thank god I'll have dad to cling on to!!!

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  • looneysh
    Beginner May 2012
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    Im like you dreading walking down the aisle with all eyes on me...dont like being the centre of attention. worried I'll fluff my words!! But soooo excited at the being able to call my OH my husband!!

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  • SaSaSi
    Beginner July 2012
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    Im nervous about being in the car with my dad on the way to church - I know I'll cry!

    Im nervous about the timing of the day - I hope it all runs ok & weve no set backs!1

    Im excited about seeing OH face as I walk up the aisle. And Im excited about cutting the cake - i LOVE cake ?

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  • knitting_vixen
    Beginner September 2011
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    I am afraid that if I look at any guests when I walk down the aisle I will cry. I will not be looking at guests. I am most nervious about walking down the aisle.

    I often get emotional at other people's weddings and hold it in, stiff upper lip etc ?

    I would hate to cry at our wedding, I don't know why, I think I would be embarrassed.

    I am most looking forward to getting ready, saying my vows and signing the register (provided I don't cry), listening to the speeches, eating the food and dancing (so that is pretty much everything) ?!

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  • Samantha2704
    Beginner July 2011
    Samantha2704 ·
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    Im nervous about everything!

    I'm nervous about how everything is going to look when its all together, i havent got time to make sure everythings ok before the wedding either so i just have to put my trust in other people (i didnt realise how controlling i was until now)

    I am however looking forward to wearing my dress and hopefully looking amazing, i'm actually looking forward to seeing my OH's face! and im looking forward to getting stuck into my wedding cake (Chocolate Fudge, Toffee, Coffee & Whalnut & Fruit Cake! 'nom nom')

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    Beginner April 2011
    arnold2b ·
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    This turned out to be a good thread! Its funny how many of us are nervous about the walking down the aisle bit. I had a dream where i had a panic attack before i went in! i am excited about seeing the venue all dressed up as well, although a bit nervous incase its not as i expected, theres no way of knowing what it will look like when its all done!

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