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AuntieBJ
Beginner September 2014

what gives people the idea...

AuntieBJ, 18 August, 2014 at 22:39 Posted on Planning 0 5

...that they can just invite themselves to things!!

Yesterday I had a request to add someone to my hen night list. Ok, I know her, but not that well and I felt really awkward! In the end I said ok and decided to take it as a compliment!!

But this evening the OH decides to inform me that his boss is bringing two of his grown up kids to the wedding ceremony. Not only were they not invited, but I gave the venue our final numbers a week ago!!!

Apparently, the daughter is very upset that she wasn't invited! Frankly, I dont give a sh*t!! I've only met the girl twice and she virtually ignored me both times. I've told OH its up to him to deal with, but I'm fuming!!!

Aaaaggghhhh!!!!

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Latest activity by AuntieBJ, 19 August, 2014 at 09:40
  • MrsShep
    Beginner September 2014
    MrsShep ·
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    Urgh, what is wrong with people! I just don't get why people can't get their heads round the idea that you invite the people you want to be there, and everyone else is just supposed to be happy for you, not insist on turning up! Tell them to bugger off ;-)

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  • Shamy
    Beginner September 2014
    Shamy ·
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    I really, really don't understand why people think it's ok to do this. I can't imagine people doing this at any other social event. Maybe weddings just send people a bit crazy?

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  • slou90
    Beginner April 2014
    slou90 ·
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    Standard wedding sh*t ! People Pee me off! Smiley smile

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  • kiwi_girl
    Beginner May 2015
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    It really is ridiculous. Why do people think it is ok?? Some people just think they have a right to do what suits them, and forget about other peoples' feelings.

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  • B
    Beginner September 2014
    beckimas ·
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    Argh! How annoying! I would just use the excuse now that final numbers have been given and although you've tried your best (who cares if you tell a little white lie Smiley smile) they just won't move and said it's too late. I know you don't give a *** and it would be much more satisfying to say you don't give a *** to them lol it may just be easier and then at least you don't look like the bad guy. X

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  • AuntieBJ
    Beginner September 2014
    AuntieBJ ·
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    Oh believe me, I would never tell them how I feel!!!

    OH is just going to be very firm and we will prepare the ushers to repel uninvited guests!

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