OH and I were talking this morning and it seems there is no 'right' thing to do any more re gift lists.
Once upon a time people getting married would have a list at a department store but now with so many of us having our own homes and/or living together beforehand this seems too much and not what people want (and I have also known people to be slagged off for having too expensive gifts on their list)
If you ask for deposits into a fund for a honeymoon that is considered rude by some (even though its probably what the couple want!)
If you ask for vouchers or cash that too is the wrong thing as its considered greedy!
So...are we supposed to ask for nothing? A wedding I went to last year a lot of guests didnt even bother with a card which to me is beyond rude! I couldn't imagine not taking at least a card for the couple and yes I know weddings are expensive to attend too but a card costs a pound!
So should we just ask for nothing and cross our fingers?
What are you doing?
xxx