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What is your natural way of working?

Clairebecky, 25 November, 2008 at 22:17 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 7

I am curently on a postgrad course and there is a clear division amongst the 16 of us on the course in working style. We have our first assignment due in in less than 2 weeks and the majority have been working steadily, pacing themselves and worrying about the assignment. There are then a few of us who have barely thought about it and will no doubt be panicking at the last minute, probably staying up late and knocking it out at the last minute!

No matter how good my intentions are to get organised and to start things early and pace myself, I always seem to find myself in the same position. It's as if I can't motivate myself to get started or to focus until the pressure is on and I have no choice! I am the same with housework - my house is usually a tip but when I know I have visitors coming I blitz. I seem to need some stress and pressure to get going!?

I think I have inherited these tendencies off my mother. She has apparently always been the same, staying up all night to finish assignments at teacher training college. In fact when I rang her last night she was still trying to write the script for her class nativity!!!? My Dad on the other hand is completely the opposite and has to plan everything down to the tiniest detail. He is always early for things, tidy and organised, whilst my Mum and I tend to be rushing around, late, not having factored in any time for things to go wrong. It drives him up the wall!

Talking to a friend of mine though, she said she had been on a time-management course and they had more or less told her that whilst you can try your best to put plans in place and to organise your time better, most people have a natural style of working and you will find it hard if not impossible to change your ways significantly!

So how do you tend to work, what's your natural style and do you think it's possible to change?

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Latest activity by cariad, 26 November, 2008 at 07:41
  • Gryfon
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    I try my best to be organised. I make plans so I can do work throughout the term so I'm not rushing at the end. However it always ends up as a last minute panic and working through the night! It seems to be inbuilt as try as I might that happens every single time!

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  • LittleStar
    Beginner March 2009
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    Interesting. I wonder if it's linked to people responding to reward/punishment? I'm like you, have good intentions but end up leaving things to the last minute. Always get things done under pressure/risk of punishment though!

    I'm almost always late for things. It's the thing I dislike most about myself. FILis ex-army, so almost always WAY early. "If you're on time, you're late". Hmph.

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  • Dooby
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    With work related things I tend to prefer doing things bit by bit so i'll work on a item a little bit each day until it's done (unless it's urgent when it gets done straightaway).

    In the rest of my life i'm a little less organised and unless i make a definite effort i'll be leaving things like birthday/christmas present shopping to the last minute and though each time i think to myself i will be more organised in the future it never seems to happen.

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  • LittleStar
    Beginner March 2009
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    Dooby's post has just made me realise that I'm more organised at work and less so at home. I wonder why?

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  • memedoaky
    Beginner September 2008
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    Clairebecky - I was the same as you all through school and uni!

    I am a terrible procrastinator when it comes to course work and house work, though in work I'm the most organised person ever with list of "to do's" all placed in order of importance. In work they all say I must have OCD and be terrible in the house - no one believes me that I'm actually a lazy slob who delays everthing until tomorrow, but tomorrow never comes!

    Though give me a deadline to hand in anything that I can do from home in my own time and I'll do it last minute! I did once try to pace myself in doing an essay for uni and it got me my lowest mark ever! So I reverted back to my old system of leaving it to the last minute as I appear to work better and produce a better quality of work when the pressure is on.

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  • jelly baby
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    I'm another one who leaves things to the last minute. All through university and school I was the one up all night cramming before exams etc. The one time I really paced out my revision and was "good" I got my worst mark.

    I'm the same with doing things in the house, I always seem to be rushing around in a panic getting things done just before guests arrive. This can be despite having had a week to prepare where I have just thought about what needs doing rather than actually doing it.

    However, I'm not late. My dad (and then me) was in the armed forces so to me "if you're not 5 mins early you're late" has been drilled in to me.

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  • cariad
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    When studying i would get home and the same night break the assignment down into headers for paragraphs , cut and paste lots of crap in it and then forget about it and panic 2 days before it was due in and then work like hell on finishing it and putting it in my own words , so i seem to start off good

    now i do things as they need doing , i finally have a good filing system and i can see what i need to chase up and i work that way first

    i do tend to procrastinate about things but get things sorted one morning a week when i have the energy and the mind set to do it

    at the moment work is on the back burner and i am being lazy about it all and concentrating on being ready to go on hols and sorting xmas out , my brain cant cope with the levels of stress i have at the moment and i am blocking parts of it out

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