What is your next wedding related task?

Well next on the immediate list is to try out our taster box for the cheese wedding cake. it just arrived today so think I am showing great restraint in not staring until the OH gets home.

Then next on the list is to order invitations and finalise the guest list. Just waiting for the registrar to get in touch with us...wish she would hurry up! Also need to keep pestering my OH to ask his friend to play the violin at our ceremony (this is one of about 4 jobs I have given him and he still hasn't done it!!)

After that I think we will be able to have a little break :-)

I'm not really sure. I feel at a loss at the moment with what to do. Wedding is 7 weeks on Saturday. I feel like I have so much to do but I can't think of anything!

It's a lot of paying stuff off to do atm (cake, flowers, dj, bouncy castle)

I need to complete and return our preferences to the registrar's, I just need to work out how many songs we need for signing the register, any one know?

I have a dress fitting on sat and make up trial fri.

I need to make up kids bags for their favours, luckily my friend is making up the adults favours.

I need to find gifts for my bridesmaids, flower girls, ushers, best man, and page boy. Oh and sort out a thank you for my mum and mother in law.

I'm sure theres loads im just not thinking about that needs doing. silly little things.

J9 - I can't believe it's so close for you now! It's weird seeing all the 2014 brides suddenly getting closer to the day. Foo - good luck on the 24th sounds like a lot to pack into one day!

I know what you mean about this being boring, I massively put off the invitations then it was a crazy rush to get them posted and I didn't leave my guests that long to reply but had already printed all the RSVPs with the reply date so couldn't change it! Then a couple of the evening guests gave me their addresses late so I only posted their invitations two days ago! I'm actually regretting putting off a lot of boring jobs as there's now a crazy amount to do

The next 3 jobs are;

Ordering a cake topper

Checking the wedding rings before they are engraved

Ordering my veil

We have absolutely nothing arranged or even fully decided yet so I guess the next thing to do is decide what we want to do.

Our original thinking was a beach ceremony in the Maldives and returning to the UK for medieval themed party in a castle somewhere however we now realise that you cannot marry in the Maldives so that idea is out of the window.

OH is currently thinking we have a small registry office ceremony followed by a meal in our favourite restaurant and then immediately fly out to the Maldives for our honeymoon.

I don't disagree per se however would still love the castle themed party so we need to find a compromise somewhere.

Decide how to have my hair

START the invites.

Decide on my bouquet is next I think. I can't do that til I get paid again though! Just committed to a tattoo in 2 weeks time - my last one before the wedding - so I can't spend any more on wedding stuff this month.

To do a list of the main photos we want on the day and put the post box together. Not a lot to do now thankfully! :-) x

Meet with minister (a bit of back story, he's leaving my church but is coming back to marry us ?) So need to sort some things before he goes)
Make stationery (aaaaaaargh!)
Sort appointment for me to go get kilts booked
Book all hired items for the hall (tablecloths, crockery etc.)

This is all the pretty immediate stuff, I have a long list of other stuff to do too!