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greenbean
Beginner July 2012

What time is your ceremony?

greenbean, 10 July, 2011 at 21:11 Posted on Planning 0 27

Hi, I'm trying to plan the day and timings etc. I would love to know what time you are having the ceremony. I don't want to make the day uncessisarily short - i'd rather take my time and enjoy it, but then I don't want it dragging and people getting bored/tired before the evening do.

My mum said 3pm for the ceremony but that seems a bit late to get the ceremony, photos, WB, speeches in etc betfore evening do at 7/7.30ish.

What are other people opting to do?

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Latest activity by ajdown, 11 July, 2011 at 21:47
  • Tray1980
    Beginner July 2013
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    2pm and evening guests arriving at 7.30ish (I think, I need to speak to the venue about the second time to see what they suggest)

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  • vicster
    Beginner December 2011
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    Intimate ceremony in City Hall at 11am, own ceremony type thing with guests at 3pm, dinner at 5.30/6 and then evening guests at 8pm.

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  • Helenia
    Beginner September 2011
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    Civil ceremony at 1.30, blessing at 2.15, wedding breakfast at 4. It's afternoon tea so won't take as long as a full hot meal, then evening guests are arriving around 6.30.

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  • Random Name
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    Our wedding service is at 3pm. Gives me time to get ready slowly and also guests can eat brunch before they leave.

    our venue would allow us to go on till 1am so don't think the day will go top quick

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  • Beckstar
    Beginner June 2012
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    Ours is a church service, starting at 1.30. i'd say anytime between 12.30 and 2 would be fine. when I've been to an 11am wedding the day just seemed too long.

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  • ajdown
    VIP September 2011
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    Slightly different for us because the wedding breakfast is literally just the meal, and we're moving the speeches and cake cutting into the 'evening reception' part so everyone can enjoy them.

    1.30pm ceremony begins followed by blessing

    2.15pm ceremony ends, drinks in the garden.

    2.30pm photographs.

    3.45pm wedding breakfast guests assemble, barbecue served.

    5.15pm wedding breakfast ends

    5.30pm evening guests join us.

    6.00pm speeches.

    7.15pm cutting of the cake.

    7.30pm first dance.

    8.30pm evening buffet served.

    11.00pm last dance, departure of the bride and groom.

    Midnight - non guests must have vacated premises, residents may continue in the hotel bar if needed.

    Don't worry about the day dragging - it'll rush by for you, and guests will appreciate time to mingle and chat with other guests, and if they're staying over, they'll need some time to check in to their hotel. Those with children will appreciate gaps in the programme for their offspring to let off steam, feed or sleep as required.

    It's an often made mistake that we feel we have to entertain our guests all the time - they're adults and perfectly capable of looking after themselves particularly if the bar is open... and the children are the responsibility of the parents at all times.

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  • Mrs Bass
    Beginner March 2011
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    We had a 2pm ceremony, thn drinks, canepes, hotos, wedding breakfast at 4pm eve guests arrives t 4:30. all went swimminly and perfect timmings. in fact i was all ready to go at 2pm and my brother who was giving me away asked me if i wnated to wait 10 mins. i siad no, evryon is ready, im ready and on time, lets go!

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  • jojo2
    Beginner June 2012
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    We are having our ceremony and reception in one venue so our will be 2pm and wedding breaksfast around 4pm with evening guests arriving at 7.00pm.

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  • Rod
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    We're not having a sit down wedding breakfast - our timings go like this -

    3pm - Guests arrive

    3.30pm - Ceremony

    4pm - Drinks and canapes

    5.30pm - Reception Starts - includes hot finger buffet

    6.30pm - Evening Guests start arriving

    7.15pm - DJ Starts

    7.30pm - Speeches, cut cake, first dance

    8pm - Photobooth Opens

    8.15pm - Second finger buffet opens

    After - drinking dancing and generally having stonking good time!

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  • MrandMrsFord
    Beginner November 2011
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    Wedding is at 1pm

    Canapes and drinks in the chapel gardens until 3pm

    Photos etc and receiving line at Reception venue with welcome drinks 4pm

    Speeches at 5pm followed by sit down dinner etc

    Evening guests arrive 8pm

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  • M
    Beginner July 2012
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    Were having a church wedding at 4pm

    then photos

    5.30-6 arrive at venue for welcome drinks

    cold buffet at 6.30

    then speeches,cake and first dance to lead the disco

    then alot of cocktails

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  • LoveSka
    Beginner October 2011
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    WSS, , ,

    these are are timings too, , ,

    xx

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  • Mellow_Yellow
    Beginner May 2012
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    7pm, for cake cutting followed by first dance at 7:30pm

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  • greenbean
    Beginner July 2012
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    Thanks for all the ideas there guys. I think i would rather the eve do start at 7,00 than 7.30 as we have to start chuckking people out at 11.3. I'll work back from there then so we are probably looking at either 2 or 2.30. I will just have to beg the hotel to get a few more rooms available on early check in.

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  • nanny plum
    Beginner September 2011
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    Hair and make up folk arrive at 10.30 (6 of us to do)

    Photographer arrives at 13.30

    Ceremony starts at 14.30

    drinks at 15.15

    wedding breakfast at 16.00

    DJ starts set up at 18.15

    evening guests after 19.00

    I did not want to be getting really early and feeling rushed and 14.30 seems to fit in that there is not that much hanging around..if it goes to plan that is.

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  • Chidders
    Beginner June 2012
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    Ceremony at 1pm at the church. Planning the evening reception to start at 7/7.30

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  • Flowmojo
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    Check with yout TOG how much time he/she wants taking pics as some will advise you what time to have your ceremony to conincide with this

    Ours is at 2pm, evening guests arrive 7-730pm

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  • sal.san
    Beginner December 2011
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    Hi greenbean

    Our ceremony is at 1pm, we have to clear the room for at least 2 hours for them to set up for the wedding breakfast (apparently by Law this is recommended - having the same room for wedding breakfast as ceremony), hoping to sit down by 3.30/4pm and evening guests from 7pm onwards.

    xx

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  • ajdown
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    Never heard that one before.

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  • nicnol
    Beginner October 2011
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    me too!

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  • Tanya77
    Beginner August 2011
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    Ours will be about the same as this. Seeing venue tonight to finalise everything, but it still doesn't feel real! ?

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  • moonpie1985
    Beginner July 2012
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    Our cermony is at 3:30, followed by photos at church.

    Then will have drinks reception at venue at 5 and more photos, followed by wedding breakfast at 6:30.

    Dancing from about 8 with pork pies to finish off.

    Hope it all works out as I am entrusting the timings to other people who should be better in the know

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  • Tray1980
    Beginner July 2013
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    From what I've read in lots of places the only requirement is that food and drink is not served before or during the ceremony to the guests attending your ceremony in the ceremony room

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  • Blonde Viki
    Beginner July 2012
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    Our ceremony is at 4pm. This gives us about 2 hours for photographs/mingling before the wedding breakfast at 18:30. We aren't having a lot of posed photos so having discussed this with out Tog, we're happy it's enough time.

    I wanted a later ceremony to give people chance to travel, get sorted and to make sure that if I've forgotten anything, there's plenty of time to sort it out!!

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  • HayleyMay
    Beginner September 2012
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    1pm - Ceremony (Wanted earlier but someone got in 1st!!)

    3.30-4pm - Wedding breakfast

    7pm - Nite do

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  • leni-lw!
    Beginner November 2011
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    11.30am church service- then sit down around 3ish then evening kicks off 7ish and kick out time is 1am ?

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  • ajdown
    VIP September 2011
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    Are you sure about that? A lot of hotels I've been to don't let you check in till 2pm or 3pm. Travelodge, for example, is 3pm unless you pay extra for the privilege of an early check-in.

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