Well, 20 days to my wedding and I'm all a giddy.
However, my father has made a small issue for me. He and my mum have been divorced for over 15years now, it was a "good" divorce (if there can be one) in that even though my dad was off bonking another lady, my mum had pretty much known the marriage was over a long time, he made sure she had the house and helped with the mortgage and ran away for pastures new.
I have an.... ok(?) relationship with my dad, would see him once every 3 months of so as a teen. He isn't giving me away but will be sitting at head table. We don't see any of his side of the family now except my grandparents.
He remarried for 5 years (not the lady he was bonking, that broke down soon after it become serious!) and only last month started divorce procedures with this one too. This made my table planning easier - no Step mum needed! yay!
But I got a call last night from him asking if he could bring his "best friend" to the evening reception. So I don't have to provide her dinner or anything, but it turns out it is his work colleague who I have never met. My dad works and lives very far away, when I ask where she will be staying he says "in a hotel with me...", I ask if she is married - oh yes.
To be blunt - my dad is a rogue, scoundrel, or stud. I bet his is planning on bonking this lady. I don't particularly want that on my head on my wedding day, and although mum is ok with the divorce etc I dunno if she will enjoy seeing him flirt with a new flossy. However, I can see it from Dad's point of view - no friends at the wedding, just his mum and dad and a lot of his ex's family.
So hitchers - I ask you, What would you suggest?
I have told my mum and told her to think about how she will feel, I have told dad I will "have to check with the venue if I can squeeze one more in".