what would you do?

Hiya chicka ?

Firstly I think your friend will completely understand if you explain to her how body concious you are specifically with problem areas. You can still take part in the facials and other less revealing stuff. You could maybe have an alternative treatment at the same time as the other ladies so you are still part of the group, like a pedicure.

I would maybe buy a swimsuit and a sarong to cover any scars if they are on your lower body.

I know its hard but these other girls will have one or two things they hate too so they probably wont notice.

LxXx

Ahh thanks girls

im sure i will be ok - think i am having a low day at the mo!! i need to try not to think about it too much as stress brings on cysts!! lol catch 22!!

I really smpathise with you as I have hated my body for years and always missed out on things due to confidence. If I was you now, I would go, once you are in the water you wont see your body and then you will have a towel orgown on. Please dont let your insecurities spoil your fun if you would like to be there. Most women have insecurities and they may be worried about their own bodies and definitely wont be looking or judging yours!

Good luck and make the decision which makes you happy xx

Seriously, I wouldn't stress about it hun. There will be a way around it, and you will still have a lovely time with your girlies, regardless of whether you bare all or not ?

Ahh you are so nice ive had a little tear in my eye lol ~(snap out of it girl!!)

sure we all have body hang-ups. id try not to think about it - and defo dont stress please or u will make yourself ill my dear!! Go for the full swimsuit and bring a house-coat. that way you can wear it til you're in the water.

Aw chick, honestly, the girls on here are right, you shouldnt miss out!

my friends are all shapes and sizes - the wee skinnies moan that they have no boobs, the curvy ladies complain they are too big, the middle size ones hate their skin/feet/hair...

they are all too busy worrying about themselves to even notice each other (myself included) !! i know its hard to be comfortable when you arent happy about your body, but like the girls say, maybe go for a facial, pedicure etc in your housecoat and you'll be fine.

xxx

I agree just go you will really have a laugh! and no one will be looking at you they will all be worrying about themselves all us girls are the same! but once your there i bet you will wonder what the worry is about! and if you dont feel confortable then just go have a coffee or wear a kaftan or something! go and enjoy yourself! xxx