Mum got a call from a very old family friend to say they are coming to the wedding- great.
BUT, can their 40yr old divorcee, non-hoper son come as he will be driving them to the wedding!!! (It will be an 8hr drive for them)
Mum didnt know what to say, & said that its a small wedding (true) & its up to me to decide! I just dont know what to do or say to them.
We really didnt think the older couple would come due to the distance & the son has stayed at ours in the past & been a real sponge- hence didnt invite him to the wedding & have nothing to do with him now. He & his family stayed with us for 2 weeks once & never even bought a meal, bought any food for the house or contributed in any way. (They invited themselves by the way!)
What would you do/say to them?