Hi all. I am an oldie who used this forum back in 2007 to help plan our wedding. My husband and I are facing a massive dilemma and I really feel it would help me to get things off my chest a little to post on here and seek some advice.
My MIL was diagnosed with a severe form of dementia a couple of years ago at the age of 62. To cut a very long story short, my husband was given power of attorney for his mum and about a year ago discovered that there were some large sums of money paid from his mother's account to his sister and her boyfriend without explanation. When he asked his sister and BF (very politely and non accusationally) we were rounded on and no explanation was forthcoming. The transactions immediately stopped, but his sister sent us some very nasty emails. When the transactions took place my MIL would not have been able to authorize them, but we stupidly trusted his sister to take care of one of her accounts.
We had no option but to report our findings to the police and office of the public guardian. The police investigated and confirmed that criminal activity had taken place. The police want us to provide a witness statement, but the thought of my poor husband being made to stand up in court and give evidence against his sister is so difficult to comprehend. My mother in law is in such a bad way and that in itself is enough to deal with. But I get so angry when I think they are going to get away with it.
Please can you help us to make a decision? ? It is so difficult to talk through with family and friends.