If you thought that someones lifestyle wasnt good for their children.
M split up with her long term boyfriend about 8 months ago, they had a boy now aged 4 together and M also has a 10 year old daughter, since the split M has lived in 3 different houses (rented) because she has trouble paying the rent and moves before she gets kicked out, the house she had with boyfriend got repossessed as niether one was very good with money,
I used to be quite close with M as we had our boys 3 weeks apart and they became friends as they got older,anyway at the beginning everything was fine M got herself a part time job and was coping with single motherhood again, but recently shes fell in with the wrong crowd, shes 25 so still only young and like to go out clubbing, she dosnt have the kids on the weekends as her mom/sister has the girl and the boys dad has him, so shes out everyweekend with her new set of mates getting very drunk,stoned and having various male aquaintences to stay,shes also bragged about having an orgy staged at her house and various other things going on, I know shes into smoking drugs now as this is one of the things that made me decide not to see her socially anymore as she tried to persuade me to try it and when I wouldnt she got the hump and we had words, shes had 3 different men move in with her and the kids,all of which are in this circle of friends,
shes now on a final warning at work for turning up late and hung over on several occasions and I just feel sorry for the kids, shes already had a few letters from the kids school about them being late and absent . I am still on her msn list and occasionally her daughter comes on and talks to me (just general 10 year olds chit chat) but the icons M has on her msn are really quite pornograpic and i dont think a 10 year old should be able to have access to these, I asked the girl where her mom was when I just talked on msn with her and she said, Mom and x ( never heard of x before) are in bed and im doing Ls dinner (L is the 4 year old boy)
Now do i mind my own buissness or should I talk to someone as they are lovely kids and id hate to think of them being neglected or seeing something they shouldnt,
So what would you do