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Whats wrong with me....Am I having cold feet?

sal76, 18 March, 2013 at 14:57 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 5

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I have 4 months to go before the big day but I feel like me and my hubby to be arent getting along so well. Iam not feeling too great about myself now and yesterday I went with my moh and bridesmaid to find dresses. My moh wanted one thats blinging and fitted with a low neck so she can show cleavage.She is stunning anyway and seeing her make me feel like i will fade into the background at my own wedding.

Am i just going mental and getting cold feet. I have been married before and really dont want to fail a marriage again the second time.

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Latest activity by 3d jewellery, 19 March, 2013 at 10:24

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Mrs C · 18 March, 2013 at 15:21
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Welcome to Hitched!

First - communication is important, speak to your OH about how you are feeling.

Second - your moh should wear what you tell her to wear, she will not outshine you, you are the bride.

Hope you work it out.
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ForTheLoveOfMrsBrown · 18 March, 2013 at 15:32
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You're at about the right stage to start having bride wobbles - it will pass.

Your MOH will wear exactly what you tell her to wear (are you buying?). If she is insistent on flashing the flesh (which is usually very inappropriate at a wedding anyway), people will just think she's a bit of attention seeker.

My husband had a very not so secret crush on one of my BMs. Him and all his boys routinely perv over her!
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3d jewellery · 18 March, 2013 at 17:45
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I thought you were getting married in July 2012, did you have to postpone it to this year? If so was it because you were having doubts then?
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sal76 · 19 March, 2013 at 09:48
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Thank you for your reply, I have managed to sort it out by the way of communication.

I believe it is more jitters than anything, me just being silly but also bogged down with work, been in hospital, and planning the wedding, was starting to take it out of me.

Thank you
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sal76 · 19 March, 2013 at 09:51
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@ 3d We were meant to be getting married last year but postponed it due to lack of funds not doubts.
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3d jewellery · 19 March, 2013 at 10:24
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That's good then ?
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