I've got a few family and friends type gatherings coming up and I don't answer the "when are you having kids" type questions well. I used to just ignore it with a smile but as it's unlikely that we will be having kids any day soon due to a problem with me I'm getting a bit more sensitive about it and upset by the insensitivity.
I need a good answer, nothing rude just abrupt enough for people to get the idea, I thought the fact that I'm unemployed and struggling to find work might have made people back off a bit but just this morning I got an email from my aunt which included "you're not getting any younger" and "having a baby is a career in itself" ARGH
What do you say?