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Beginner August 2014

What's your H2B doing for his stag?

Mrslizziew2be, 15 July, 2014 at 19:33 Posted on Planning 0 28

OH's stag is this weekend. Being collected at 8 to be taken to brighton for the weekend. All he knows is all 15 are playing bubble football, going to a vodka bar, strip club ( just to add strip clubs don't bother me as no one can touch the girls) and that he's the only 1 who has to dress up but BM hasn't let on what! Due to the dress up outfit apon the BM calling clubs to arrange entrance he found out not many would let my OH in so he'll have to change when they get near the posher clubs!

I can't wait for him to go on his stag, thought I'd be a mess but seeing him the last few days find out little bits and being excited has made me happy because it's one step closer to the wedding Smiley smile I know the lads will do him right and look after him so no worries there... MIL to be's a wreck though with worry ha! When all 3 brothers are together it's like a competition of mocho-ness!

So what are your OH's doing for there stag?

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Latest activity by Purplemunchkin, 19 July, 2014 at 09:34
  • ebony_rose
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    ebony_rose ·
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    My H never had one.

    he isn't into the usual stag do things, so chose not to have one.

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  • AuntieBJ
    Beginner September 2014
    AuntieBJ ·
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    Mine knows nothing too lol.

    He's going out for a curry on the friday night and having a few drinks. Saturday morning he is playing a round of golf with all who want to, the rest will be sleeping off the night before. Then they're all heading off to do blindfold driving followed by a round of crazy golf for which he will be dressed in bright plus fours and neon socks while all the others are wearing bald caps lol. Then more alcohol will be consumed.

    They finish up on sunday morning with another round of golf followed by excessive sobering up ready for the wedding on Monday. I just hope he makes it!!!

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  • M
    Beginner August 2014
    Mrslizziew2be ·
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    Oh my got Bekki your brave! I don't think I could handle it ending the day before the wedding! All sounds so much fun though , LOVE mini golf!!

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  • M
    Beginner August 2014
    Mrslizziew2be ·
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    Ebony, that's fair enough, there's no point having one if he won't enjoy it.

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  • Hmcx
    Dedicated July 2014
    Hmcx ·
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    Mine went to Amsterdam. He doesn't seem to remember much apart from losing his phone and cards on the first night!

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  • xoxoxo2017
    Beginner May 2017
    xoxoxo2017 ·
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    The BM is also his Dad so will know him well enough to know what to do right. All that H2B has said is that it must be in Liverpool and he'd like to do the races. Not neccessarily grand national as prices of everything will go up, but do the races. What else happens on the weekend, I dont think he will know anything else. He loves the scouse accent on a woman.... uh-oh! I hope i dont get ditched Smiley winking

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  • AuntieBJ
    Beginner September 2014
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    We didn't have a lot of choice! Due to people going on their holidays and whatnot, the only weekend the main people were free was that one or the weekend before that. He couldn't have the earlier one as that's my hen do and there would be no-one to look after the kid lol

    He'll be fine - I hope! !

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  • EdenNI
    Beginner December 2014
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    My fiancé is off to Amsterdam, I'm fine with it now but interested to see if I'm worried about him when the time comes. (Worried about him getting too drunk/stoned/robbed/falling in a canal I mean - wouldn't be remotely worried about the sex industry side of things). I wanted to have my hen do that weekend but couldn't as my friend was going on holiday with her boyfriend, they've split up now but it's too late to change Smiley sad will have to get the girls over for a wee party instead!

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  • Hoddy
    Beginner July 2014
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    Mine went go karting. Then played FIFA at our place with everyone. Then went for an Indian. Then went to the pub.

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  • Foo
    Beginner June 2014
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    Mine went to a snooker club then a few bars. That was the plan. Actually he went to a snooker club and then WENT MENTAL. They went out at 7pm on Saturday and got back at 2am on MONDAY, having had no sleep in between. Pretty glad that wasn't the day before the wedding. ?

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  • Hmcx
    Dedicated July 2014
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    That's exactly what I was worried about. Him getting drunk and falling in a canal! Luckily it didn't happen.

    i took me and our daughter off to Manchester to visit some family for the weekend, and we were having so much fun, I ended up missing his calls (from a friends phone)

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  • InkedDoll
    VIP January 2015
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    Mine isn't having one either. Nobody outside of our immediate families knows the wedding date, because we don't want a fuss - and hen and stag dos are one of the things we want to avoid! We're just not into that rowdy night out type stuff.

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  • Pandabarney
    Beginner August 2014
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    Mine is going bowling and then out on the town.

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  • D
    Beginner August 2014
    Deb11 ·
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    OH went to Hamburg for a weekend then had a UK one at the races with more family etc.

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  • CrazyRatLady
    Expert September 2014
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    He's getting all of his music playing friends together for a jam night and a lot of beer.

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  • jen-lou
    Super July 2016
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    Ha, which one, he thinks hes having 3!

    1 with "the boys" (the means best mates) Amsterdam

    1 with his music mates weekend in a cottage in the lakes

    1 "family friendly" one the races

    Lets see how many of the 3 he manages, he must think we are made of money, te he he

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  • NorthSouthGirl
    Beginner November 2014
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    My OH has no idea what he's doing, he just knows he has to be at his cousins house (BM) by 10:00am on the morning of the Stag.

    In reality there's about 15 of them going for a Clay Pigeon shooting morning then there's a quick break in the aftenoon so they can get home and get changed (apparenlty they'll be covered in gunpowder residue) and then about 20+ a meeting up for a night on the town.

    the BM reckons he is dressing my OH up for the shooting.... that could be interesting OH hates stuff like that lol!

    It's a bit of a low key Stag but OH isn't really into going out etc, they were going to do an Action Weekend with moon buggies and paintballing etc which is much more up his street but costs got in the way!

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  • S
    Beginner November 2014
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    OH had his 6 months early due to work commitments and went to Budapest for 3 nights. It was very messy from the sounds of things but think he enjoyed himself

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  • chels1315
    Beginner August 2015
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    My oh is wanting to do an adventure weekend with his bm and groomsmen, shooting range, go karts, archary, rock climbing etc, then camping with lots of alcohol and burning things no doubt. then hes going to have a night out with the rest of his friends and dad etc.

    Were both planning on having 2. one with our side of the wedding party and then a family/friend one

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  • bliss_balloons
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    My OH wants to do three nights out in three different European countries getting the train between each. I have no idea if this will happen or if they'd actually make the trains or the plain back home!

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  • Arpee
    Beginner August 2016
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    My OH just wants something low-key. He went to his brother's stag a couple of months ago and they went clay pigeon shooting which he really enjoyed, and was really good at, they gave him a little plastic trophy with "Top Gun" written on it, he hit the most clays - I think he'd like to go shooting on his own stag do, but he's also mentioned a weekend in somewhere like Betws-y-Coed, the Peak District, the Lakes etc, somewhere they can go biking, hiking, fishing, drinking. I reckon there will be about 6 of them.

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  • M
    Beginner May 2015
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    Mines going to Prague for a couple of nights, think thats the only bit of planning he's really excited about hah!

    His BM (cousin) is arranging it and think theres lots of activities planned. Some girls keep trying to warn me not to let him coz of brothels etc....but i know i can trust him, plus my ex-army dad is going too hahah!

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  • cymruangel
    Beginner December 2014
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    My OH is doing 2, but probably only because he's jealous of mine (I'm having a break abroad with the girls, then a "hen night" with the mothers)!

    So he's going to go away for a week just with his best man, probably some sort of road trip, and then wants to do a driving experience day or similar with both fathers, the best man and his usher later on.

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    Beginner August 2014
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    Mine went to Scotland with friends on motorbikes. Their all bike mad.

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    Beginner March 2015
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    Mine is off to Stuttgart to an Oktoberfest beer festival

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  • *MM3*
    Beginner June 2014
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    Mine was the same, he went out for some drinks & food a couple of weeks before the wedding but didn't call it a stag night or anything. He's not into the big stag do's!

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  • MrsA2B2014
    Beginner September 2014
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    My OH doesn't drink and his BM did a really good job of arranging a stag weekend that wasn't heavily booze focused. They went to Oxford to do some clay pigeon shooting, then headed off to go karting. Finished the evening in a nice restaurant and ended up in the bar of the hotel they stayed in. OH loved it, it was totally him and I think his friends actually appreciated a fairly tame stag.

    I fly out to the wedding on his birthday and he follows me a few days later, he's going to have a second stag on his birthday, just him, his brothers and his Dad going out for dinner.

    He's best man a few weeks before our wedding and was really excited about planning the stag. Then got a text from the B2B saying to not bother and that a stag party wasn't in-keeping with the theme of their wedding..........

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    Beginner August 2014
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    Oh wow lots of different ideas for stags Smiley smile hope your OH's have/ ha a great time to those who are having them Smiley smile and honestly fair play to those who are not, I'm sure they have had many a great night in their time anyways Smiley smile

    OH left 20 mins ago... Yesterday it looked like 2 people couldn't make it but 1 showed up this morning and the other, well I guess I'll find out if he ever did turn up tomorrow when OH is home. He forgot it was this weekend and booked a fishing trip and as he's banned from driving he was meant to stay at ours but I guess he went night fishing. If he dosnt turn up they can't do the bubble football.

    Theirs always some kind of drama last minuet with a large number of people!

    Dreading OH's phone bill the amount of calls he's made in the last 24 hours trying to help the est man organise people!

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    Beginner August 2014
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    My OH isn't a stag party kind of guy either. He and his best man (his 14 year old son) are having a pizza & DVD night tonight, whilst I'm out with the girlies.

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