When will it hit me???

I been married 7 years and I still have to pinch myself sometimes.......

I wasnt stressed before our wedding at all. We had everything organised, any panics were dealt with - i even went shoe shopping in the morning! It hit me that we'd got married whilst we were up at the altar during the final hymn and we were away from everyone. I had a couple of tears - the vicar gave me a tissue and told me my make up was fine - told the organist to start playing, we turned round and walked out.

It is fine not to be a quivering wreck but it is also fine to have some nerves!

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not long now! Just try to keep calm, I'm sure it would be worse if no one else had anything to do and were fussing around you!

are you walking around with a huge smile? I would be xxx

No...... no huge smile here. More like lip biting! lolol....

our friends seem to be more excited about the wedding than us! (we are excited but they are all like kids at christmas!)

I have been with Mr Bee for 6 years but known him for almost 9 years as we were friends before we got together. Every now and then i still think 'im actually going out with Rich' which seems silly but when i realised i liked him i never thought we would actually end up together let alone have a son and get married.

I think we get so wrapped up in the planning that we dont always get time to think 'oh my god im going to be someone wife'. Although by posting this i think it is starting to hit you. I think on the day i will be a bag of nerves and im sure i will be an emotional mess as soon as i see him!

Well it hit me at the doors to the ceremony room where I turned into a sobbing mess. My H describes me like a baby who needed to take a deep breath in between the big sobs! I didn't have any tears but I couldn't stop shaking and my breathing was all over the place. I think BWC said she wanted to hold me up to make sure I didn't fall to the floor!

It might not hit you as such and that isn't a bad thing. My H was throwing up all morning and hadn't slept much the week before and then the night before he got no sleep. If anyone was going to be ill with nerves I would have thought it would have been myself so I don't think you can really tell how you'll feel as the day gets slower.

This is going to be me.

I keep telling myself it's less than two months now, and I know it but I don't seem to *know* it yet IYSWIM?

OMG Teehee I cant believe we only have 18day left, I feel so excited but soooooooooo nervous at the same time it is an odd feeling isn't it!

Yes... im not excited though.... its a rather bland feeling i have twinned with nerves. Maybe i'll feel differntly when the minister comes over on thursday night.....

18 days?! OMG.

I got quite a bit done last week but still seems to get coming around so fast! I know what you mean about it 'hitting' you - I'm so focussed on the arrangements and the details that every now and again I have to stop and think about what we are actually doing! Was nice choosing the service though and thinking about what we will say to each other... ?

I maybe wrong but i think you are a live for the moment girl....i only say that because im the same, everyone else has stressed about wedding, everyone else is excited but not me etc....i dont think about tomorrow or the next few months (unless its to do with age and then i tend to think about it for months lol) until its here so things dont seem real. So i think it will hit you either the day before or on the morning of the big day in a good way ......18 days wow where on earth does time go. x

I feel the same, it hasn't hit me yet either! But i know i'm going to fall to pieces on the day because i'm an emotional person anyway!

Personally, i'm so wrapped up in worrying about timings, everyone being where they're supposed to be on time, and people actually enjoying the day that it han't hit me yet that i'm actually getting married!

Me too moomin