Hello lovely brides-to-be!
so this is my first forum post ver, let alone a wedding one!
We got engaged just over two weeks ago, and I've been looking at magazines, apps, websites you name it I've probably been on it!! That said, I still feel a bit overwhelmed, I don't really know what to begin with - we are seeing my parents at the weekend which will help as we will have an idea of budget, but even then - where's the best place to start?
Maybe it would be easier to list some of my questions (I hope you are all ready for this....)
- what are the best wedding insurances to buy? Are there certain clauses etc to look out for or clarify?
- I've chosen 4 bridesmaids but only two of them know each other, one is my H2Bs little sister but she's really outgoing and so I think she will be fine, the other one who doesn't know the others is very quiet and lives at the opposite end of the country to the rest of us, with her new baby. I'm a bit worried that because of this, and because she is notoriously bad at keeping in touch and responding to calls and messages, that she will end up either being or feeling left out of things, or frustrating the other maids because they don't hear much from her. I absolutely want her by my siege on my wedding day, but still want it to be a lovely experience for both of us in the run up!
- how does everyone else manage with everyone else constantly having an opinion - people we hardly know have said we 'must do this' or 'should make sure we consider that' - I'm sure it is all well intentioned, but I'm already struggling to bite my tongue!!
- what are people's thoughts on a videographer? Some friends of ours set up a video camera and just got a non professional video to go with their professional photos which I think is probably a good idea but I'd love to get your thoughts!
- colour schemes - I've seen so many beautiful combinations and cannot for the life of me choose! Overall I think the theme we will go for is English country garden so as much as I'm really loving the navy and fuchsia stuff I've seen I don't think they'll gel well - I'd also quite like to include yellow in some way as my ER is a yellow diamond, so I was also thinking of a range of purples and lilac hues with accents of yellow maybe with sunflowers for the bridesmaid bouquets etc - AGH so much choice!!
- how many dress shops should I try? I have no clue about the dress! And is it best to just take my mum or should I invite the maids too?
- lastly, what's the one piece of advice you wish another bride had given you this early in the planning?!
I've probably missed loads of the things that have been whirring round my brain for the last fortnight but...
thank you in advance :-) I can't wait to hear what you all suggest!
xxxx