which one thing is the most important detail of your wedding?

It's not a material thing but I do worry about OH at times, he does have a huge input but I'd hate for him to go along with things to keep me happy, it has to be what he wants too.

That's it, that's a worry of mine.

My dress I don't think I like it

Eeeeek! Just wobbles or do you actually not like it?

Ummmm..... family! There are some people coming that really don't get on and they're close family so they have to come. I just hope they behave on the day.

What about you Em??

It has to be the 50s rock n roll band we hired- we booked them as soon as we booked the reg office and venue (and we booked these early so we could book the band!)

The weather :-( an outside wedding this weekend was perhaps not my greatest idea! :-( please let there be sun and no rain! X

I think I mis interpreted the question... OK, it's numbers... we over invited and now wish we hadn't... not had any declines yet!

Nerves probably! Im worried im going to be so nervous and tearful that parts of the day will be a blur or i will wish it away. And nerves on OH part too, he is not good with attention being on him and im worried he will not relax on photos, he might rush his speech or not say the things he really wants to. I know weddings are emotional for everyone but we have been through a bit recently so its more emotional than what it would have been normally, for both of us.

and oldgal, im so sorry you are worried about your dress, whats the matter?

I am praying OH's daughters will attend, I would feel so bad for him if they didn't.

I don't think it is the one ! I think it is a nice enough dress ( should be for the money ! ) but I think I lost patience ! It isn't what I went out for Gutted !

The weather!

Have you thought about looking for another... I know time is limited but maybe getting a sample dress and then selling on your own? Its your day you should feel like a princess in THE DRESS!!!

I kinda did the same, fell in love with a dress i couldnt afford, went on to buy something else... However then found my dream dress pre-worn totally within budget, it fitted me perfectly and the seamstress made it look brand new. The new dress i bought i sold back to the dress shop and didnt lose any money on it!!

My one thing that has given me sleepless nights and think it will continue to do so is wether my mum will 1.manage to remain sober, 2. make a fool out of herself and 3.Make the whole day about her!!! Arghhhh xxx