We're having 40 50 close family and friends at our ceremony.. but now I'm not sure who to invite to the evening do only. We live in ketn and we're having our wedding in Wales so I know that's a long way for people to come. I started to write down everyone from work, when my OH pointed out that some of the didn't even bother to reply or let me know they couldn't come to our engagement party, which at the time I was very upset about (especially considering one of them we had gone to her engagement party the weekend before!) so I'm not inviting work people.. well I want to invite some, but I think the others will be put out.
Who do you decide to come to the evening do and not the wedding? Won't they be offended?