My mother went mad at the weekend to find out we are paying for hotels, for 2 nights for OHs Mom and Dad, 2 sisters, Niece and Nephew, Best Man, and Grandma to attend the wedding.
We thought as we are making them come the 70 miles up north it would be fair enough...
Background is OHs family have contirbuted £nil to the wedding, and my mom a few thousand and she was already miffed about this as OHs family earn a lot more than my family mom and stepdad (almost double).
Opinions much appreciated, as relationship with my mom is suffering while i'm defending PIL.
What would you do? Money is not especially tight although obviously we are looking to spend as little as possile / not waste cash.