Why do people leave it so late??? rant alert

It's not just you - I have to "pick up the mess" all the time of people letting me down for things and it annoys the hell out of me.

Unfortunately a lot of people don't realise that a "commitment" to attend an event is just that - not just a vague expression of interest.

Sure, emergencies happen, but I'm sure a realisation that she "can't afford it" would have happened a while ago. How much are your tickets, out of interest?

Oh no! Thats poo!

Some people have no idea how hard organising things can be! ?

Don't stress too much though, at least you know your real friends will be the ones there - the ones that dont come aren't worth the worry!

xxx

My hen planning has made me realise pretty quickly who my real friends are...

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Thanks Ladies,

Tickets are £15, so its not like i'm asking for a fortune or going somewhere strange. I'm going to the city centre for gods sake!! Its not like i'm asking them to spend hundreds and jump on plane somewhere! It just bugs the hell out of me when people let you down so close to the event.

Oh I'm so so sorry cosmo. People can be right a**es sometimes, makes you wish that you'd never invited them in the first place!! Hope it doesn't ruin your night though, forget about them and enjoy yourself!

xx

Oh dear thats so rude of them!

TBH I'm expecting ppl to drop out as I know some of my work 'friends' are useless and do let me down a lot. So I've told my sister to get money off them up front so no-one is out of pocket if they cancel.

At least the people that matter have made the effort. Thats what I'll be telling myself! Dont let it ruin your night.

xxx

Thanks Ladies,

I knew there was a reason i loved Hitched!! The only problem i have is that i've now had to pay for the ticket that is now not being used!

RRRRR

How annoying!! I was quite lucky in that only one pulled out of my hen party (last min literally afew hours before) but my friend on her hen party had all but one of her bridesmaids ( ? ) pull out over the space of two days before

Very annoying but as MrsB_2B said dont let it ruin ur night!!

xx

P.s

Have a FANTASTIC hen night!! xx

Is there nobody else you could ask? Maybe they aren't quite so good a friend but if they pay for the otherwise wasted ticket, then that's half the problem solved

I think i've exhausted all my resources. I'm even at the point of asking my BM if she wants to bring a friend!!!!

I'd come!!! (if it wasn't for the fact it's my birfday on Sat!!!)

If it wasn't for the facts that a) I'm a guy, b) I'm busy the weekend and c) I'm 200 miles away I might consider it ?

Thanks Ladies & ajdown, you've cheered me up ?