It's three days until our wedding. The table plan is finalised, the numbers are confirmed, the suits are collected, my wedding dress is hanging up all ready to go. So it all sounds pretty sorted, right?
Several of our friends are single and good friends with each other, so we didn't invite them with guests as they would all know plenty of people and we were trying to keep numbers down. We sent invites addressed to specific people (no "and guest" on the invite), and replies came from those people with no other names added to them, so it looked like everyone knows we're just inviting them, not them and a guest.
Last night I heard from a friend that one of our friends is bringing someone who we didn't want to invite to the day (ie meal etc). Apparently the friend who told me wasn't supposed to say anything and has told us that the info "didn't come from him". So, that leaves me wondering. In what world is it ok to invite someone to someone elses wedding and not want them to know about it?
The thing that gets me is that the person involved is a really nice guy and I don't think he'd be doing it to upset us, so he must genuinely think it's an ok thing to do.
H2B won't speak to him about it as he doesn't want to get the friend who told us about it into trouble (WTF?!), so we've not said anything. If he does turn up then there won't be a meal for him and I'll just say that as no one had told us he was coming, we don't have a place for him.
Anyway, this is more of a rant than anything so RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA! It's out!