will this cake look odd?

Not at all, I think it will be fine, and you want to make sure you have plenty of cake to go round everyone!

Ah don't panic! I wouldn't even notice to be honest - I think it will look lovely! Go for med, large, large - it will look absolutely perfect.

Thanks, I doubt anybody would notice tbh, not sure I would! I'll probably do a bigger bow on the bottom one or something to try and even it out a bit! I think I am finding things to worry about!?

I doubt anyone would notice on a staggered stand like that, don't worry!

With the cake stand like that, like others have said, I think it should be fine! And people will be more fussed about looking at how wonderful you look! So panic not!

I'm sure it will look fine either way! Though just a thought - I like the top one being small because it emphasizes the cake topper (if you have one). A larger top one can leave the cake topper a little swamped.

Sorry to throw a spanner, but I'd do small, medium & large with extra bars/cupcakes. Although most wouldn't notice it would bug me (if I was the bride in question!).