My lovely MIL2B was diagnosed with terminal cancer in July and we decided then to get married. She has been doing great until last week (pottering and shopping) but has suddenly gone downhill and is sleeping all of the time, hardly eating and having stronger pain relief. We are obviously all upset and hoping that she improves. I just feel awful about the wedding. I don't want her under any pressure if she is too ill to come but know she would be so upset if we postponed.
Only thing we can think of if she can't be at the ceremony is to go to her between the day and evening reception. Sorry for the sad post, just feels better getting it out!