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MrsWinwood2B
Beginner April 2010

Worried about theives!

MrsWinwood2B, 27 January, 2010 at 18:31 Posted on Planning 0 9

I just spoke to a colleague today who told me that he went to a wedding a few years ago where he gave the bride a lovely present which he'd taken to the wedding and left on the gift table with the other gifts. A few weeks later, the bride (who he works with) hadn't mentioned the gift, so he asked her if she liked it. It turns out that about a dozen of their gifts had been nicked - from a table right in the room where the reception was being held! And it was a pretty posh hotel too! So embarrassing for the poor bride, who then didn't know who had given a gift that had been taken and guests who gave a gift and didn't know about the theft would have just thought she was ungrateful!

We've not asked for gifts, but a contribution to our bathroom renovation, so I'm particularly concerned about gifts/cards getting nicked. Anyone got any tips to avoid this scenario? It would look a bit odd to have someone keep "emptying" the gift box/table, but I would be gutted if peoples presents got nicked, and them just thinking I couldn't be bothered to thank them.

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Latest activity by DebbieD, 28 January, 2010 at 15:42
  • overtherainbow
    overtherainbow ·
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    Could you nominate someone to take care of this for you? Maybe arrange for all guests to hand anything over to the Best Man or parents or Chief Bridesmaid etc. There are some pretty sick people in our society but it pays to be careful even on your wedding day as you say.

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  • Mel B
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    Mel B ·
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    I was worried about this too and asked my venue wedding coordinator about what to do and she said it's up to the ushers to keep an eye on the gift table,maybe you could ask an ushers to do it.

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  • cola
    Beginner September 2010
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    Thats terrible! but it has got me thinking!!! what kind of post box do you have? i'm was thinkink of getting my oh to make a wooden one and put subtle locks on, put it will be in plain sight until the disco starts and then it will be getting put in a secured room - its just at hotels anyone could walk in (other guests and dodgy staff). only suggestion is have some one in charge of them and don't leave them out when the disco starts

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  • Maxibon
    Beginner March 2009
    Maxibon ·
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    I havent even thought about this!

    does it go on a lot? I know that none of my guests would take anything that didnt belong to them, but what about dodgy staff?

    we werent having a post box but now im not sure....hmmm.

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  • teeheeyoucrazyguys!
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    This happened to one of our brides here (cant remember who) the hotel assured them the gifts would be locked in the room over night but during the night cctv caught someone - prepared - going into the 'locked room' and nicking gifts. Had it been me the cops would have been called and everyone interviwed but not easy done when its a huge hotel. I'm horrified that the hotel didnt do anything about it afterwards. (Least Ive not heard any update)

    we had our gifts moved to bridesmaid bedroom.........as we werent staying at venue.

    I'd get the gifts moved regularly to a hiding place...even if thats a guests car boot who's going home that evening....

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  • 1Lucie
    Beginner May 2011
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    Yeah my mum had 2 tiers of her wedding cake stolen!!!! Crazy someone would want to steal it!

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  • Weather Girl
    Beginner October 2009
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    I was also a little a worried about this so we asked the venue if they could check the gift table every now and then and take anything that was on there to the office for safekeeping. They kept the office locked and we just went to collect everything the next morning. If venue can't do that I'd ask the best man or someone to do the same and maybe keep them locked in their room for you.

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  • DebbieD
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    As a wedding co-ordinator, I always supply a locking, solid card box for all my brides and make sure I put gifts away safely. I usually leave 1 or 2 gifts on the table but keep a close eye on them. Before I leave, I empty the box of cards and ensure they are all put away safely too.

    At a recent wedding where the bride had her post box made by the lovely Hay, her dad put a couple of cable ties on to ensure the lid couldn't be removed!

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