Would you be annoyed if...

I would be very annoyed, but obviously as you said the church can't be shut off from public access, could you possibly mention to her she's welcome to come and see you enter the church (in your dress etc) but subtley hint she wouldn't be able to be in the actual service? Don't know how you'd actually do that tho sorry!

Not really. ALthough we are not having a church wedding so slightly different. We are getting married in a 16th century hotel in a small village on dartmoor and although we will have every room in the hotel i fully expect to find locals proping up the bar.

I walked to my wedding and all my neighbours followed me up the road and came to the servie- it was so lovely! And as you said you can't stop anyone coming to your wedding if you choose to have it in a church! To be honest I seriously doubt you would notice one person anyway amongst all your guests!

Just so you all know this isn't a personal dilemma, I'm quite good at ignoring people so she'd have to really disrupt the wedding for me to be annoyed (shout something out etc). I highly doubt she will turn up.

I was just more curious as to whether it would offend you if some random person sat in on your wedding?

In which case the answer is no, i plan on looking and feeling great on my wedding day so the more people who see me the better!!

Lol I completely agree! It's quite funny you should say that actually I was whinging to my mum about the wedding cars taking back streets. I want them to go through our local town as opposed to back streets. I know that sounds daft but I'd like the journey to be scenic as opposed to it going around the back of Wilko's lol!