What to do: ideas?
me and h2b were planning to get married this year, but decided to go a year later as his mum was getting married in dec, so we have everything set for sept 2014 and then her and her h2b split up, move out and cancel the wedding. They had asked our daughters to be bridesmaids (age 4 & 8) and we had to tell them it wasn't going to happen and they were really upset. Now his mum has rescheduled for march 2014, has assumed we will take the girls off school for her now weekday wedding (originally a sat) and hasn't even told us herself that they are even back together.
The new date is also when one of our daughters is away at camp with brownies so she won't be able to make it at all.
I feel really bad for my daughter and while I think that his mum should be free to get married wherever and whenever she chooses, she is now being really nasty to my h2b and we will have to tell her our oldest isn't going to be able to make it whatever happens.
