I got married 4 years ago and for the first three months was still claiming tax credis. I know it was wrong but it was a case of I must ring them but it just kept slipping my mind, poor excuse I know. I left my husband two months later and it has been a bitter split up. He doesn't help me financialy towards the children and it cost me thousands to divorce him, he got legal aid.
His sister has always hated me and I stupidly recently updtaed my facebook status saying I was fed up with him not paying towards the children, she's somehow found out and is threatening phoning the tax credit fraud line. The family are under the impression I took thousands of pounds off him where really I gave him thousands towards his house, I was made homeless with two small children. She emailed me yesterday, I haven't responded she's evil.
The other complication is teh CSA are about to prosecute him, so I know she's more than prepared to phone the fraud line, but it's not just me that will be affected it's the children, there's no reasoning with either of them.
I'm quite prepared to phone the tax credit myslef and tell them of the mistake I made. My concern is if they start prosecution procedures. I have a quite high profile job, and they would expect me to resign, or if not I'd get dismissed.
I know I've done wrong so please don't start shouting at me!! I've struggled like mad the last 4 years and now I'm finally managing to survive on my own. We don't go on holidays and I rent my house. But I don't rely on anyone. I'm finally happy.
I'm going to work now and can't access the site from there. So please don't think I'm ingnoring any responses.