So, H's op has been postponed again. This time because one of his surgeons is on compassionate leave.
Fortunately (or unfortunately) it's only postponed by 2 weeks. Unfortunately, because work wise, I am due to be in Germany with work, for the start of a project, that I really need/want to be involved with.
It should be a no brainer that I cancel the meeting and send someone else and be there for H (I'm off the day before and day of his op). However they've already cancelled once, and this is a task I really want to do (and it's not something that can be rearranged). Will I be much use being there when he's being operated on and in intensive care (they won't wake him for at least a day after surgery). Will I be any good at my job worrying anyway? Why do these things always happen to me?
So WWYD?