Most of you know the saga I always have with H and my family. He doesn't like being with them blah blah blah.
Well, last Christmas we were with my family down in Devon. Left there at 5pm on Boxing Day to come back home to spend the rest of it with H's family.
This year, we're with his mum & dad for Christmas. So it's only fair that we do the opposite and go to my mum's on Boxing Day evening right?
According to H, no, it's not on. He doesn't want to go and spend the whole time down there (from Boxing day evening to New Years Day). He wants to go on the 27th, no sooner. I tell him no, that's not fair. Christmas, to me, is 2 days - Christmas Day and Boxing Day. If we had to leave my parents' early last year, why do we get to spend the whole of Xmas at his parents' this year?
He says unless I go on the 27th, he isn't coming.
I tell him to spend Christmas alone.
What would you do?