I've always wanted to have one of these LOL ?
I recently got back in touch with an old school friend, we met up the other week for a very quick catch up. He had his 4YO daughter with him. She's a nice enough, bright, chatty little girl but OMG appalling manners... constantly interrupting the conversation, demands to be pushed higher on the swings, we visited a local sweet shop and I offered to buy her a lollypop, she chose the largest one on the stand and when I'd paid for it (with some other items) she ripped the bag out of my hands to get at the lolly before we'd got out of the shop (I'd planned to let her have it after we'd got out of the queue at least), demanding her father buy her x, y AND z selections of sweeties. No pleases and no thank yous whatsoever.
I'm used to children who, firstly, mind their P's and Q's and on the odd occasion they forget I'm within my remit (as parent's friend, aunt or godmother) to remind them gently. Parents all happy for me to say something.
My friend (who admittedly at school had poor social skills and still seems very awkward these days) did not pick her up on her rudeness/manners. I was utterly taken aback and did not at the time say anything.
Thing is, he is keen for families to stay in contact now we've rekindled the friendship but to be honest I'm not sure I want to spend time round this child, it's really obnoxious behaviour and I know I'll have trouble holding my tongue. I don't think he sees there's a problem and to be honest we've been out of touch so long it's more like a *new* friendship. I'm sort of ignoring his current email suggesting we meet up because I am not sure whether I want to or not! Behaviour aside, I would be happy to have the odd get-together.
Ok so that was a bit rambly, what would you all do?