My side this time ?
My Mum is 60 mid Sept and it's her and Dad's 40th wedding anniversary. My brother and I had a chat and agreed to organise a secret party, not least because most of our family live all over the country and Mum loves an excuse for a catch up.
Have just received an invitation - brother and his wife have organised a first anniversary party 2 weeks after Mum's b'day and anniversary and have invited all the rellies. They didn't mention this to me before it had already been booked, despite (obviously) knowing about Mums party.
The rellies are very unlikely to come to 2 parties given that it involves too much travelling. Mum and SIL aren't the best of mates, so I am guessing it'll be a cold day in hell before their anniversary party becomes a joint one. I feel a bit miffed that they've done this and, given that they're giving people 4 months' notice of a party, I suspect there was an intention to get in there first.
Now I don't know what to do. I can't really afford to pay for Mum's party by myself, and we live miles away, otherwise I'd have invited everyone to my house for afternoon tea. Any ideas?
Please don't quote, I may delete this as SIL used to Hitch at one time.