Hi everyone! I’m pretty new to this website and very new to planning a wedding. Me and my partner got engaged in 2020 but put off planning until now. we’ve now set a date for late 2024 so hopefully that’s enough time!
Both me and my partner are on the autism spectrum as-well as some of our bridal party (my sister and the maid of honour). A lot of our guests coming are also neurodivergent in different ways but all of us struggle with sensory issues, overstimulation and burn out.
Both me and my sister are hypersensitive to noise while my partner is hypertensive to harsh lighting and strobes.
As we all know weddings can be incredibly overstimulating. We want to make the wedding as sensory friendly as we can and we don’t want anyone to feel uncomfortable or feel like they have to endure something uncomfortable/painful for them because it’s our day.
I’m going to speak to the venue about finding a designated quiet space especially for the reception, there is a lake and lots of forest walk aswell which I think will help but I think it would be nice for people to have somewhere warm aswell. I’m going to ask the dj to keep in mind our issues and keep the noise at a lower level and see if they can adjust the lights too. I’m probably going to have my noise filtering earplugs in most of the day too.
If anyone has any advice, ideas or similar experiences I’d love to hear them. It’s a long time away but even just thinking about it makes my head spin haha 😅
Thankyou for taking the time to read this!