Just over three months to go til our wedding now (eek!) and starting to try and pin down some of the details! We are having a fairly small wedding, approximately 50 people day and night and all in the same place. We are having a 4pm ceremony so there aren't any long gaps for anything. It suits us down to the ground but there are some logistical issues! The wedding ceremony, breakfast and evening entertainment are all within the same venue - there is a small barn used for the ceremony and then a marquee attached which will be used for the food (an afternoon tea) and dancing into the evening.
However, I'm not entirely sure when to ask the band to set up. They usually just arrive about 2 hours before they play to set up, soundcheck etc. However given that the stage and dancefloor are all part of the marquee where our guests will be spending most of their time that would mean them arriving and setting up right as people sit down to eat! Would this be too intrusive on the meal??
We do have a gap of about an hour and a half or so between the ceremony finishing and the food being served for mingling, canapes and photos - do you think this would be the best time to ask them to set up? Otherwise we'd have to ask them to arrive 2 hours before the ceremony begins and it seems a bit rude for them to hang around for 4 hours or so with nothing to do...
Has anyone had a similar wedding set up or experience?