Best friend not bridesmaid..... Title?? x

Guest of honour?!

Ooo!!! I like that a lot!!! sounds perfect, many thanks x

I know a few people that have had a 'Best Woman'

I've been in this position 3 times!!!!

I don't think I ever had a title. Non-bridesmaid but helper and all round bride assistant person was about it! I LOVED it!!! Meant I got to be involved in all the fun of organising and helping, but didn't have to feel like I had 'duties' on the day and could enjoy the wedding as a guest!

For my wedding I think I'm going to be in an awkward position with regards to bridesmaids - I'm even engaged yet! My mum says I should have my two cousins, who I am close to, but I do want to include my friends too. A lot of them come as pairs too, as in if I had one I'd have to have the other!

I've been bridesmaid 4 times so far (another time next month) - Some peoples' opinion is that if you are bridesmaid for someone they have to be your bridesmaid too? I find this very strange - unless I decide to make them all wear my bridesmaid dresses like in 27 Dresses!

At the moment looks like I'm going to have 0 or about 8!!!

Surely she's your MOH?

If I had decided to not have BMs my BF would still have been my MOH regardless of whether she wore her own dress.

Whatever title you give her she's your PIC - partner in crime ;o)

Agree. Just because she's not wearing a "proper" dress doesn't mean she isn't, in fact, your BM. In fact, it's a bit cheeky to ask her to the job without at least bestowing the title on her.

Ask her if she'd be your MOH, then say something like 'Don't worry I'm not going to make you wear a dodgy bridesmaid dress, you are welcome to wear whatever you would be wearing as a guest anyway, you know we are only having a small wedding and I want you to enjoy the day as a guest but would love you share in the excitement of the planning too'

I agree that if you only have the one friend it's fine to ask them, and bestow the title on them!

I agree with others regarding her being MOH, Originally I only had under 16's in my bridal party then I realised that I needed to have someone sign the register and wanted that person also to do a reading for us so in the end MOH was the only fitting title to give her.

We have bought her dress and everything but as she is the only adult we bought one from a high street store that worked with the other bridesmaids colours and it all worked fine , is this an option for you??

L x