I've got a predicament on choosing a best man. It's basically between my brother and my wife-to-be 's brother. That might seem like a no brainer but I've had a lot more to do with my future brother in law and he's always helped me and future wife out whenever we've needed it. I've never really been that close to my brother, who is 7 years older than me. I was always closer to my other older brother who was 5 years older but sadly passed away when I was 15.
My mum and dad have both said they really wouldn't mind if I didn't have my own brother because of how he's been and they even told me than when he got married he told them that I would be his best man but instead he chose an old mate who he hadn't seen for years.
Do you think I should just go with my future brother in law and forget what anyone else thinks?
