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Beginner October 2025 Tyne & Wear

Black wedding theme

Jessica, 12 May, 2024 at 21:24 Posted on Etiquette and Advice 0 3
Seen the idea of a black wedding theme in that you ask all the guests to attend wearing black. Everyone who knows me knows black is my favourite colour and whilst I initially thought I couldn’t really have it in my wedding, I’m thinking this is a really good idea. Guests in all black. The bridesmaids in rust and the groom in green tweed suit. Colour scheme black rust and green. Just want to know peoples thoughts on asking guests to wear black. Is it deemed acceptable to tell people to wear a certain colour or is it not? Also thoughts on this idea in general. Some have said it will look elegant and unique whilst others have said it will look like a funeral. All opinions welcome

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Latest activity by Charina, 10 November, 2024 at 00:52
  • Georgia
    Beginner November 2024 Northamptonshire
    Georgia ·
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    Hi Jessica!

    I think this sounds like a lovely idea, as a guest I would be more than happy to dress in a certain colour for someone else’s day. Especially Black as I would say most people own a black outfit.

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    VIP July 2020 Monmouthshire
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    It's entirely up to you, you just need to be aware that the more restrictions or requirements you give your potential guests, the more people you are likely to get declining. For example, in this case, some people may feel uncomfortable wearing black to a wedding as it is associated with death or mourning in their culture, while others may not own a black outfit and be reluctant to spend a lot of money on something they will never wear again - or simply not be able to afford to buy something new just for your wedding. But as long as you are aware that this might be an issue, and don't mind if people turn your invitation down because of it, then go ahead.

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  • Charina
    Beginner February 2025 South West London
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    Have let guests know we are wearing Black, White and Champagne and if they like to coordinate with us that would be awesome. This leaves it down to guests to do as they please and if they would like to wear our colour theme they can, most have said they are looking forward to coordinating and joining in.

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