Hi all!
Just looking for some advice! I have a friend of over 10 years that I was umming about being a bridesmaid but I asked her to be one along with 3 other friends, my friend of 10 years has been being quite difficult and saying she does not like to wear dresses, she doesn’t want her hair a certain way (I asked if the girls wouldn’t mind having there hair up and I have it down just for photos, I’m also paying for hair and make up) doesn’t like a certain type of dress, doesn’t like certain colours, couldn’t afford to go on the hen do, I asked her if she was sure she wanted to be a bridesmaid which she got so offended for me even asking?! I have bee. So stressed for the past how ever many months because I’ve been trying so hard to make everyone happy and by everyone I mean mainly her as the other girls are just happy and grateful that I’m paying for their hair make up and dress.
Now she’s saying she doesn’t want to be a bridesmaid with 4 months left, I’ve brought pressies etc for the girls and ordered dresses especially to cater more for her which ended up being more expensive! (Thankfully I’m able to return her dress!) some of the girls are out of pocket now and our friendship has gone so downhill where we are arguing a lot it’s all so awkward! I now don’t even know if I have her as a guest or not or even evening guest?
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