Bridesmaid help

It’s completely understandable to feel disappointed when your bridesmaids aren’t as involved as you expected, especially with just nine weeks until the wedding. While everyone has their own commitments, it's reasonable to hope for some enthusiasm and support. You might consider having an honest but casual conversation with them, expressing how much their involvement would mean to you. Setting clear expectations, like specific tasks or a fun bridesmaids' get-together, could help encourage participation. Just like checking DQ menu prices before ordering your favorite treat ensures a smooth experience, communicating openly with your bridesmaids can help set the right balance between expectations and reality!

I don't really think bridesmaids help with planning generally. They organise the hen, but the wedding is about you and your fiance! Enjoy planning with him :-) My bridesmaids gave input to the dresses and came wedding dress shopping and that was it, same whenever I've been bridesmaid.