So I asked 2 friends and my sister to be bridesmaid in Feb 2021, booked and started playing April 2021 for wedding August 2021. I asked for a low key hen as I didn't want to spend that much and didn't have a MOH as thought they could all help.
I offered to pay hair and makeup, dress, hotel room night before accessories.
I live an hour away from them. So with the dresses they are all different sizes and all bigger than me so needed them to try some on. Firstly I looked online and asked for their opinion then I asked them to go shopping with me at a place 45 mins away so it would be closer to them. Offered them dates. Nothing! Let me down so after several date changes I went myself. I found 3 but again wasn't sure on size. They made excuses as to why they couldn't make it so went to buy them and they'd gone. Only £20 each!
So I then started looking online and ordered their size to my house. Again gave them dates but they made excuses as to why they couldn't attend so I reordered dresses to each ones house to try on. 1 small so refunded which was fine. Sister did drive up so that helped to try on one.One friend said it fit but only sent me a top half photo so I asked about zip She said she hadn't even bothered doing it so I drove round to zip it up. Far too tight so ordered another size. She still hasn't tried it on as she said she is isolating and got childcare issues and has a lot on. This friend also can't attend my hens due to childcare and stay night before even though she has a husband.
With the hen, only one friend was helping saying the other 2 weren't. It is a meal and drinks not rocket science and they've made it complicated. Due to covid changes they've changed and can't get refund for some people who can't attend. I've paid £120 to give back to people to save the hassel.
I'm so upset. I do a lot for these bridesmaids and feel like they've made hardly any effort. I get people are busy but I've been working throughout frontline nhs so also stressed.
I don't want any hens or to get married. Devastated and let down right now.
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